Anyone else feeling disconnect from partner?

26 weeks pregnant & we rarely even have sex anymore :/
I am either asleep by 11pm and then he goes to bed too and we just don’t do it.

I just don’t know what’s happening???

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We’ve had sex like twice since I’ve been pregnant because I just have no desire and cba 🤣 I’m also sooo tired and don’t feel great -my partners very understanding but there’s lots of other ways to connect! We have lots of cuddles and kisses and have a laugh and joke together which keeps me feeling close to him

If you are wanting to then definitely have a chat with him, it’s so common to find yourself not doing it as much during pregnancy!

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My partner said "I dont want my dick anywhere near my daughter evenmore so since she has a name" 😅 men seem to think that the baby can be damaged by having sex as the baby enters and leaves through that passage 🤔 don't think much of it and just wait until you've had 6-8 weeks following delivery. Men are just grossed out by this process

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I have no interest whatsoever especially with a sensitive cervix that bleeds easily and at my 12 week appt was told to avoid it for a little while! Hubby is very handsome and I remind him of this though 😅

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Maybe explore other ways of connecting? Reduced sex is totally normal and it will come back. Early days you might find you can’t bare the thought of sex after giving birth 🤣 but we found once our daughter moved into her own bedroom, we got “our time” back which is how we ended up pregnant again not surprisingly 😅🤣 keep talking and being open and honest with one another about how you’re feeling you’ll get there!

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Me and my hubby the same. If I’m in bed I’m asleep and he doesn’t seem to bother about wanting it!

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