Father's day

So I know it's like mad early, but I like to plan in advance. What should I get, make, do, etc for my hubby for his very 1st ever father's day? Last father's day I was pregnant with our 1st, so I only made him a yummy steak dinner. Thx!

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This is my partners first Father’s Day this year I’m gonna take him to an expensive restaurant. We never spoil ourselves in that sense so I thought I should spoil him on such a special occasion I’m gonna get our son a cute outfit too that’s a representation of Father’s Day

My husband is really low key so his first Father’s Day, we actually just checked out a car exhibit nearby and had lunch at a restaurant. My daughter was only 2 months then so we kept it simple. His second FD, we had family visiting so we went strawberry picking. This is his third and we have a son now who’ll be 4 months then. I’m thinking of maybe doing a weekend staycation and I’m buying him a gold pendant with our kids names on it.

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