Baby cries when she sees relatives...?

So my lg has been seeing her aunt and uncle almost every week. She just turned 20 weeks. Yesterday her aunt came over and she just got all teary and started crying when she held her. Is that normal at this stage to have stranger danger? Or in this case it's someone who she hangs out with every week?

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My baby sees my mom almost every week and this week she was screaming her head off. She would smile at my husband then cry with my mom. I would say it’s normal but definitely not fun lol

My baby is happy with me and her dad and pretty much is serious or cries with everyone else

I'm having this problem with my almost 6 month old he cries with everyone else but gets quiet with his father and I I'm hoping it's normal I'm trying to get him to be comfortable with other people

yeah definitely not fun. I hope it's temporary though and not her personality 😒

I just hope it's not becoming her personality and is just a phase

My daughter hates her father *we arent together* she likes everyone else though

This happened with my baby the other week and I think it was because he thought he was going to get watched by her and me have to go to work (even tho I wasn’t going to work) but he screamed when she held him and he’s never done it before. So I’m not sure if it’s them realizing that when they see certain people that mom is going to leave them for the day???

My son does this, but he’s really only okay with me 🥲 he sometimes likes his dad. But 98% of the time screams and cries until I hold him again. My mom watches him during the week while I work and we look a lot /sound a lot alike, so he doesn’t always react to her and is typically happy. But as soon as he sees me it’s game over LOL

But then other relatives are just a no-go for him. He cries and cries until I get him back.

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