Baby daddy

This may sound pretty messed up but I don’t care my baby daddy/boyfriend haven’t been pretty nice to me since I’ve been pregnant, so I started back talking to my ex. I’m currently 30 weeks and I really wanna be with the person I love which is my ex. I don’t really love my baby daddy I care for him, but I don’t want a relationship with him. It could because how he treated me this whole pregnancy but I told him I don’t want a relationship after the baby. I told him my heart is with someone else. He started screaming, chocking me it was horrible I do feel bad but I just wanna lay next to someone I really love not force myself to be with someone just because I’m having there baby. I’m just ready to be happy because I’ve been miserable with my boyfriend for a while now it’s just a baby pop up. And I didn’t wanna get abortion, I think god will understand

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Be with the one you want and love. Men do it to us all the time. Do you. Wishing you the best!

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I’m sorry love but please leave this man. He is physically abusing you, while you are pregnant with his child. There are charities that help you leave abusive relationships if you have nowhere to go so please please please for the sake of yourself and your baby, get out of there before it gets worse. You are not obligated to anything whatsoever, please don’t feel trapped x

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I wish I was as brave as you. I been there but chose to stay and make it work. he wasn’t abusing me just my heart was with someone else. and we actually broke up I got back with my
ex only to find I was pregnant and decided to work it out. my heart isn’t fully there but we’re happy. 2 kids but if I were as brave I woukda stood with who I loved. all now I love him but i’m not passionately in love. and I think we all deserve that kind of love. good luck to you.

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This is domestic violence and strangulation can be fatal in as little as 7 seconds. It’s no wonder your heart isn’t with him. You have rights to file a police report and get a restraining order.

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Be with the man you love and who loves you

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This is domestic abuse and he can go to jail for it. Please leave this man and never look back and also don’t put his name on the birth certificate. If he’s like this with you… imagine what he’s like with a child. He’s not to be trusted. If you don’t have him on the birth certificate then he gets zero parental rights. Please find a safe way out and away from this man. Keep all the abuse documented in case you end up in court. He will not get away with this if you have everything documented

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Sorry ur going through this.. try to establish a good coparenting relationship it’s very important for the kid. As to u getting back with ur ex , I’m not sure since it didn’t work out the first time . I say focus on u and ur baby. No time for men right now .

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Be with the one you love honey.

It worked for Diana Ross ☺️

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Well, the good news is you love the better man. Keep smart and be with the one that doesn't abuse you.
Keep your heart happy. Keep your mind, body, and soul happy.

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