So we had our late 9-12 check up the other day. HV did a 14m check up to coincide with LM actual age (he's 14m in 2 weeks). There are a number of things she's said we need to work on:
1,pointing
2, finding things in different room
3, stepping holding onto one hand
4, standing on own
5, climbing
6, stacking toys
7, making marks on paper
8, using other items to grab toys that are out of reach,
9, taking a few steps solo
Has anyone else's baby/babies done all of this? Can you please let me know which "milestones" they havnt done yet?
Or any pointers you can give to help me with baby reaching said milestones. Thanks š
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My LG hasn't done number 8 but has done all the others she's almost 14 months x

Mines 12 months and hasnāt done 2 and 8 but everything else

My daughter is nearly 14m and cannot do 2, 4 or 9.

My son is 12 months and done everything except number 8

1- yes
2 - Erm, I donāt tend to leave her in another room on her own unless in her cot!!
3 - no where near
4 - no where near
5 - no where near
6 - a few times but maybe fluke.
7 - yes, but she will also try and eat the crayon
8 - no idea, probably not.
9 - no where near

Ooh not tried to see if he can get stuff from a different room š¤ He knows where to find his sister in her bedroom, if that counts. Not sure if he uses other items to grab stuff either. Pretty sure he can do the rest though. I just came to say that all babies are different and will get there eventually. My niece didn't walk until she was almost 18 months but her language has always been amazing. My eldest was walking well bang on 1 year but only had one word until she was about 18 months, whereas my son has only just become a half decent walker at 13 months but has LOADS of words. Probably because his sister doesn't shut up now at 2.5 years š¤£
there isn't, it's only as we missed the 9-12 month due to my HV being unwell at original appointment time

My 13m boy does all but 8 but I really think itās inappropriate for them to tell people to work on this stuff, they will all do it in their own time! They shouldnāt be making mums worry and feel anxious.

We had a 14m review at 13 months as they were too busy to do one any earlier. The conclusion of ours was that because my LG doesn't stack toys or walk that I will need a follow up call in 3 months time. I personally wouldn't worry about any of those things. Every baby is different. I've tried mark marking in different ways with mine and she simply wants to eat whatever I give her. She's just started getting me a book when I ask for one.
we have one booked in for 3 months time too. Why do they put so much pressure on us when they know every baby is different?

Iām getting a phone call in May to see if my daughter is still not pulling herself up to standing. Given itās nearly May I donāt imagine she will be so not quite sure what will happen after that. She had a hip scan as a baby š¤·āāļø

Mine is 14months and doesnāt stand at all so doesnāt do 3,4,5 & 9
Iām not worried. He moves, he is happy. He plays and engages with people. He will get there.

Mine can do everything except 2, 6 and 8. Unless you count standing on some of his toys to reach our Playstation controllers as number 8 š
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