Nap times

What time do your babies nap please? My son naps 9:15-10 and 1:30-3 and was sleeping 8-6 overnight. For the last week he’s been waking up between 4:30-5:30 everyday so wondering if I maybe need to shift his night sleep a bit and curious as to what others are doing time wise.

Thanks xx

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Sleeps 8.30pm till 8-8.30am
Naps 11am - 1pm & 3pm - 5pm

you have absolutely nailed that, I can only dream!!! Thank you xx

we definitely got lucky. Number 2 is on her way and I’m sure she’ll humble us😊😂

Sleeps 7:30 - 6, naps at 10 to 11:30 and naps again at 3:30 - 4:00 (I have to wake her on the last one as she’d sleep longer)

9pm to 5:30/6am
Then 1st nap 1h around 9:30 or 10am
2nd nap 1:30h around 2:30

Sleeps 7:00 till 7:00
1st nap 9:00 - 10:00am
2nd nap 12:30-14:30pm
All babies are different though

Thanks so much all. I’ve put him down slightly earlier tonight and am praying this will work some sort of miracle. Very naive but I’ve got everything crossed!! X

Sounds like his sleep needs have changed. I would maybe try putting him down later for his second nap, just moving it 15 mins every few days so he ends up only doing an hour. Capping naps and stretching awake time is what has really helped us

thank you! I’ll give it a go, literally prepared to try anything. He slept through to 5:45 today which absurdly I was celebrating! X

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