How to Take off soother

I don’t know just from experience in the past slowly never worked. It was always easier to just take them. Try to find something else that comfort her in the same way like a specific stuffed animal or blanket or something you can give her in place of and if you want to really try to do it slowly start trying at naps, and once that is fully successful, start doing it at bedtime, but don’t let her have it any other time

My little was 2.5 when she stopped using a soother. She only used it for sleep, and one night she just didn't ask for it. I thought it was going to be a fluke, but she hasn't asked for it since!
I offer this as reassurance, and I was getting worried about her dependence on it, but now she's completely fine without it :)