Chlamydia from Partner?

we both have it😢

U have ur answer if u know youv only slept with him in so many years...it doesn't just come back by itself.sorry ur going threw that x

Girl, if you didn't sleep with anyone else. Sorry he gave you a std 2x..

He's lying. My ex straight up gaslight me for 3 months trying to tell me to my face that I am the one who got HIM sick, when I was only with him lol he snitched on himself hun. I didn't want to believe it so I stayed for a year and I am still dealing with severe trauma and nightmares and just pain. He's lying. I tried to convince myself he got chlamydia from a toilet seat 🙄🙄🙄 I was really delulu in love. Fuck that girl he's lying please trust your gut no matter how much it hurts. I'm two and a half years past this incident and I still feel like it's happening to me right now. Accept reality while it's happening DO NOT WAIT to believe your gut

He is gaslight you to believe he didn't give you that. Leave his ass before he gives you something you can't get rid of.

My ex swore the same thing when I was pregnant with my first and had tested positive. But he was a liar and I didn't find that out till after our son was born that he had been leaving at night to go "hangout" with his ex's/other girls

Girl he was sleeping around, I’m sorry to break it to you. I got chlamydia before when I was only sleeping with one guy. Luckily, he immediately confessed when I told him about the diagnosis. Now you boyfriend is lying to you again.

And he has no respect for you because of the fact that he would cheat on you and have UNPROTECTED sex with another woman and bring it back to you 😢

that’s exactly what I’m doing to myself right now feel like I’m going crazy😔

he cheated on you. point blank period. i’m sorry girl. it really does hurt. but he is lying to you.

You will continue to my love I'm sorry but you will. You need to be stronger or at least act like your stronger and know that's his loss and not your problem (even though I know it feels like it is ONLY your problem)

Do not let him fool you. As a woman with Intuition and FACTS in front of you, don't be silly please I made that mistake for you be stronger than I was

This is exactly what i feel like he’s doing we were with each other 24/7 when I found out so it made no sense but he was probably sneaking out or something

😩😩 he definitely gave you the STDD . Stop letting these men go in you raw they don’t go to doctor unless you go

Your right🥲

The disrespect is unreal! To cheat then try and flip it onto you and lie ? Damn!! I’m so sorry 😔

When I was Prego with first kid and found we had that but it actually came from someone I slept with 2-3 years prior so it can hide for years with out u knowing it was there

Put bleach on his pecker 😈

There's no way to get it without being with someone else. You can get it from just oral too.. something happened

Sorry girl but as hard as it is to leave because of the whole little family concept and wanting a whole family like everyone does clearly that wasn’t his priority when going out and doing that unfortunately unless he slept, kisses or used items from someone else like drug wise it’s impossible to just randomly appear give yourself what u deserve cheaters are the worst especially ones that try and manipulate you to believing they didn’t you deserve better beautiful ☹️❤️

He cheated

Leave that mf putting you at risk like that 😡 he's chancing your physical and mental health even your fertility , even getting somebody else pregnant or risking your hypothetical baby from STDs because you’re having sex un protected contraception or not don't let him fool you to think that he cares about you that's not love I'm sorry🙄💔

Don’t gaslight yourself love. You know the truth is in the denial ❤️❤️❤️

He most likely gave it to you but there are some cases where STDs can be doormat in the system . However I would go with the likely hood

put itching powder on all his clothes

If you haven’t cheated, then he has. Chlamydia doesn’t reappear once treated. Don’t believe his bullshit! Sorry this has happened :(

Did y’all get tested regularly and before getting into the relationship?

Yea I got tested regularly. He didn’t. Towards the end of my pregnancy they took a chlamydia test and it was negative. Months later I went to the doctor for something else and they called me saying I have chlamydia.

Awe I’m so sorry! Yh beat him up immediately

Wait so has he givin it to you before as well?

Men swear they can lie they way out of everything and think we are going to be dumb enough to believe it. That MF cheated and found out he had it before you did and got treated before you found out you had it. I'll put itching powder in his clothes, put bleach in his body wash, and Nair in his shampoo. Like the other woman said, just combine it all together. Make that bastard pay. Frfr. I don't play around with this std's.

Yeah same thing happened to me when I found out I was pregnant. They’ll never admit to it.

naw I had got it before our relationship the first time and now this is my second time having it but this time it’s from him

But if you got it treated the first time, you are good.

men are carriers of chlamydia, it can’t develop out of no where for women. and they are most often dormant in women so the woman he probably slept with might not even know she has it bc the symptoms aren’t really there. he cheated…

I got it treated the first time when I was 18 that was my first time getting it. Now I’m 22 with my boyfriend of 2 years and now I have it for my second time so I’m not good

No, what I'm saying is that it's not from you it's from his cheating ass. Trust I know how you feel I been in that situation before around the same age. I'm 33 now, and if I was to get it again, I know it would be from my bd of almost 5 years.

He cheated . The only way you can get chlamydia is from sexual contact . Period .

I don't know if anyone asked, but did you two both get tested at the beginning of your relationship? Chlamydia can be asymptomatic for a surprising amount of time, and I'm told that men are more likely to be asymptomatic.

My personal policy is everyone gets at the beginning, and I personally get tested every 6 to 12 months.

Is it possible he cheated, yes. It's also possible he never knew he was infected. If you didn't get tested after treatment, it's possible your infection was never fully treated, and you continued to carry the infection asymptomaticly. Cheating is not the only scenario here.

With herps, chlamydia, and gonorrhea some people honestly don't know they are carrying infections. It's one of the reasons they test pregnant people regardless of their faithful relationships.

I have no idea if he cheated on you. You know him, you know your situation, and now you know it's not a terrible idea to get tested frequently even without symptoms or change in partners.

i’m sorry girl… but he cheated :( like i said (idk if you saw) men are the carriers of chlamydia so the only way for a woman to get it is through a man (and orally from anyone who has it) and women don’t have symptoms some times so he got it unknowingly, unless the girl he fw is straight up trash and had sex with him knowing she had chlamydia. it’s very obvious what he’s done..

That's how I first caught it. I swear I cussed him the f out. I got so sick and had to go to the hospital and all because I didn't know. Idk y these men just can't be faithful