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Definitely have to find time for eachother and go out reconnect do things u guys loved to do communicate what u guys wanna change and grow together

When we talk about how we feel it’s just like we end up fighting with each other and we both try to different are selfs we both don’t have the best temper

You might need space from each other. Do you guys have your own hobbies?

he does but I don’t have any my son takes up all my time he’s works on the road most of the time

My husband and I have 2 days a week where one each of our parents watch our son for the day and we get to spend time with each other or just relax sometimes we lash out at each other because we are overstimulated and need some alone time ❤️

I would honestly say don’t take the things you say to each other about how you feel too personal, sometimes we feel like we are getting criticized by our partner but you have to remember that each others feelings are very valid. I say after you guys tell each other how you are feeling see what small change you can do to make him feel more appreciated and vice versa. Me and my boyfriend have been doing this for 3 years out of our 4 year relationship and it’s saved a lot of arguments. Also you have to understand what type of love language your partner has. For example my love language is physical touch and acts of affection, his are acts of service. So when I do things like clean the yard or wash the car when he was planning on doing it himself it makes him much more affectionate towards me and it’s a happy cycle

thank you im going to take in that advice i really appreciate that!!