How to get toddler to stop screaming at her brother and use her words?

My toddlers are 1 and 2 (turning 2 & 3 in June) my boy the older one is more confident saying words and they fight a lot cus their ages so when they do, it’s him saying stop and yelling and her screeeeeching like a banshee. My fiancé their dad is a virtual worker as insurance agent so it’s really frustrating on all of us 😭 I’m at my wits end so done with it it’s been months we just respond with “Camilla use your words no one can understand you if you scream, we want to help, stand up for yourself” I’m trying to hype her up to talk but she’s still so soft spoken and nervous ugh

Sincerely,
overstimulated mom

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Ever since I became a mother, I get criticized for almost everything.

I breastfeed, and I constantly hear that “breast milk doesn’t fill the baby up” and that I should give formula.

I’m currently unable to work, and I hear things like, “This is America people don’t stay home with kids, put the baby in daycare,” even though I’ve applied and haven’t been approved yet.

My child feels safe enough to be herself when I’m around, and somehow that turns into, “The baby is too clingy you need to put her in daycare.”

When my baby cries, I drop everything to comfort her, and I’m told I shouldn’t do that because I’m “making her clingy.”

I didn’t grow up dreaming of becoming a mother, but God chose me to be this child’s mother, and I intend to give her all my love, care, time, and dedication. It is my mission.

I pray to God every day.

The life I imagined didn’t happen, but I am grateful for what I’ve learned in these past four months.

I’ve learned to speak softly. I’ve learned patience.

What more could I ask for?

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