How much would be considered too much?
Weāve been screen free till my son turned 3 - and we watched the odd few low stimulating episodes, guess how much I love you, Kipper, little bear and so forth ā¦ but now he is getting interested in movies also, Iām struggling with the house now that heās becoming more older he wants me to play with him a lot more then he did before 3 and he is active, to add I have a health condition with causes me to feel fatigue and dizziness a lot š
How much tv is considered too much? Im feeling a lot of mum guilt !! Even though heās only having 40 minutes a day (not every day at times) ā¦
SCREEN TIME; Would you describe your parentingā¦
I do believe screen time can be both beneficial and harmful. We love family movie days/nights, we love Pixar films and wanted to share that with our little ones but we donāt do games on devices/youtube/short reel like videos and some kids series I can clearly see overstimulate them so we donāt watch.
I would describe us as aware of the danger of screens but I wouldnāt say we are strict with ZERO screen time, at all, we have the TV on in the background for a lot of the day, not kids tv all day and sometimes just music channels. Screens are going to be here forever and I do believe in teaching the balance. We are a camping loving family so when my kids have been outdoors playing, discovering and learning about the world all day I really donāt see how a bit of Toy Story in the tent is going to erase all that for a young one.
I do think smartphones and iPads see unnecessary for childhood, but Iām also not opposed to a movie on one during one of our many 5/6 hour drives. Like anything in life, is it not about balance? As parents we should research and learn of course, which is why there are things we have decided our children arenāt allowed but I do personally think completely screen free parenting takes it a step too far.
I see parents not allow their children to look at a screen say in FaceTime to a family member, I regularly show my children photos of my phone and we look at them together, we also look through physical photo albumsš¤·āāļø The world has both now.
So heartbroken I found out my partner is cheating
She posted a bunch of pictures of them together, him in bed kissing her, matching outfits, them at Christmas events etc, hell she has more picture with him than I have of him with the kids in the last year.
I canāt even make sense of it all. We were together 14 years and have kids under 5 including a baby.
I feel like the worst part is the silence. I messaged him a bunch of the photos like wtf how could you do this? How could you be with someone else over a year? He responded with a typo saying āit hasnāt been a year itās actually been a for a few monthsā. I donāt know if he meant over a few months or only a few months and itās driving me insane not to know. He hasnāt opened my messages since Sunday morning. Like umm Iām home alone with babies and my whole world is crashing and you canāt even check your phone? What if there was an emergency? No apology no nothing
Itās a woman I know but hadnāt seen in a few years but our last convo she knew I was pregnant. I messaged her asking how long they been together and how could she date him and flaunt it knowing we had a family and sent pics of our family but she blocked me and changed her page to private. They still follow each other so I donāt think they are broken up but the last post of them was December.
I just canāt believe this. We actually have been doing great in our relationship in the last 3 months things were better than ever. I had zero idea any of this was going on
I hate not knowing if/when heās coming home? Is he at least coming up with a fake apology or something or will he just be angry and act like heās done nothing wrong. I canāt believe that was his only response and the typo is driving me mad lol
I havenāt slept or even ate since I found out. Iām so heartbroken we just had celebrated his birthday Saturday with the kids and had such an amazing day out, it was so beautiful our toddler was running around saying daddy daddy daddy which she just learned to say and now Iām just like wtfffffff
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