Walking

Anyone's baby not walking or standing unaided yet ? Been to the health visitor today and she's told me I've got 2 months to get my daughter to walk she's 10 months old next week

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

That’s ridiculous, my baby isn’t walking and he’s just starting to want to pull himself up on me by holding my hands.

Avatar

she pulls herself up with my hands and help but she doesn't walk yet

Avatar

I think it's still early to walk. People tends to share stories when their babies are advanced , but most babies are not like that.

Avatar

My baby is pulling herself up unaided and walking along furniture, standing fully crawling but definitely not walking.. how silly

Avatar

10 months is too early to walk!! I read you should talk to the doctor if baby is not walking yet at 18 months old.

Avatar

My baby is 10 months on the 17th and she's not even crawling yet (she's v v close and I encourage her every day, she'd rather roll!) so god knows what they'd say to me, I haven't had a 9-12 month appt come through yet x

Avatar

My son walked at 15 months. My daughter is just learning to crawl at 10m now. She has incredibly strong legs and stands in her cot but she has no idea to move her legs in a walking motion even if you pull her forward she will just fall so I'm not rushing her xx

Avatar

It’s concerning if baby isn’t walking till 18 months as per NHS and American academy of paediatrics. You have nothing to worry about.

Avatar

She’ll walk when she’s ready! I wouldn’t force her too when she’s not ready! That’ll probably hinder her more than help her.

Avatar

My baby isn’t doing that either, she mainly stands on her tippy toes, that’s ridiculous some babies don’t learn to walk till 18 months, tell her to shove off🤣🤣

Avatar

“I’ve got 2 months to get my daughter to walk” LOL or what??!!! How ridiculous. Never talk to that health visitor again 😅

Avatar

Ehhh what does she mean you've got 2 months to get her to walk?! Like there's some deadline?! That HV sounds like a dingbat.

Avatar

Not sure why your HV is saying that. My first boy wasn’t even crawling fully when we had his 8-12 month check (he was 10 months at the time) and they weren’t too concerned. My second (who is now almost 10 months) is crawling already and has been since he was 8 1/2 months and has just started to stand up without assistance or holding furniture. Babies do things in their own time. Honestly that HV sounds like they don’t have a clue what they’re talking about.

Avatar

Omg what’s wrong with these health visitors … some babies don’t walk until 16 months and it’s totally normal.. nothing you can do to make her walk

Avatar

My boy is only army crawling and pulling himself up on me. Not interested in furniture or anything else yet. I would ring up and ask for a second opinion if it has upset you or ask to speak to the manager for further advice.
I wouldn’t be too concerned if not walking. Still got plenty of time

Avatar

I wanted what is with this pulling them self on us only
My LG does the same she wouldn’t pull her self in anything apart me

Avatar

More common to see babies starting to walk around the 12-month mark...

That comment doesn't make sense at all. No HV would say that IMO

Avatar

My first didn't walk until 18m 😂

Avatar

Totally normal. Some babies don’t walk until after their first birthday! Ideally they should be walking by 18 months so you have plenty of time. Your health visitor sounds like an idiot x

Avatar

So my 10 month old is walking however while I'm mega proud of her, do I think she'd be his advanced if she wasn't copying her big brother, maybe not. My 22 month old didn't take any steps until his first birthday

Avatar

Way too early for most. I believe they only refer for support if they are 17 months and not walking x

Avatar

Ffs health visitors 😡 my LO is 9 months and is nowhere near walking and isn’t crawling yet either. Our daughter took her first steps a few days after her SECOND birthday, and she is absolutely fine and thriving.

Avatar

My 9 month old isn’t even crawling yet. I can’t imagine him walking 😂 he’s a little chunky so he’s even struggling to try to crawl

Avatar

I never had my hv say any expected deadlines but advice but mainly saying to me as reassurances that my daughter that she will do it when she's ready x don't take your hv too seriously because clearly doesn't seem really that qualified if she saying that to you hun you might want to look into getting another health visitor

Avatar

Wow. Ridiculous advice. You have 2 months!? Lol...what happens once the deadline passes ? 🤔 I'd be tempted to report the h.v.

Avatar

@Megan same here at 10 months! Not even close! Too big and lazy to even try 🤣

Avatar

HV needs to have a word with herself!

Avatar

Just thought I would revisit this thread as I had my 9-12 month appointment and my HV said my boy was ‘scoring down’ as he isn’t crawling yet… 🙄 He’s 10 months on 26th and doesn’t have much interest! He’s in the last week pulling himself up on us and trying on the sofa etc and wants to stand over sit now but crawling, he just hysterically laughs when placed on all 4’s 🤣 They also said they want to see him in a few weeks to check his length as he’s just shy of the average for his age group! I feel like these poor babies can’t do right from wrong with their development etc!

Avatar

I was so angry, feeling like it’s hard enough with having babies / child birth / zero postnatal care for us and then throw in so much inconsistent information on babies development!

Avatar

Could be! Someone told me they don’t have to keep up with current guidance etc so does that mean it could be outdated information?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

Avatar

this has been my experience. My first HV was brilliant, so helpful, knowledgeable, friendly. She was young. She left and the one I have now is in her 50s/60s and her approach is totally different and her views/advice is all outdated!

Avatar

so unhelpful 🤦🏼‍♀️ I told mine I was struggling and she said "yesh it's hard" ok guess I'll just struggle on fhen! I feel there's such a lack of empathy sometimes.

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

When did you circumcise your baby?
If you DID NOT or DO NOT have a circumcised son DO NOT comment this post is not for you!

Did you wait a certain amount of time or have it done immediately?
Again respectfully, this is only for the parents who choose to do so.
opinions about how not necessary it is will not be appropriate for this post. Thank you in advance. 🩵

Avatar

1

47

Can someone pls help i keep making this post and nobody is responding

My boyfriend booked a trip for us to go to mexico for a week as my push present. I have severe anxiety leaving my 7 month old with my mom. I know she will be in good hands but she’s exclusively breast fed for the most part but accepts bottles just fine. i have all my pumping parts packed and will pump when baby normally eats but i don’t want baby to forget me or have latch issues when i return!! any mommas ever experience this?

Avatar

9

Postpartum

I’m only 3 days postpartum (FTM) and already have extremely bad anxiety. I’m crying every night, as I think of another night of no sleep. My baby will not settle in his cot, he cries every moment we put him down unless in his chair rocker. So me and my partner are having to alternate after 3/4 hours of being awake with him downstairs. I’m trying everything to get him to settle. It’s a load of overwhelming stress. I’m 23, I was desperate for a baby and now I have one and feel completely useless. I miss it just being me and my partner.

Avatar

3

22

I feel like just a milk cow

Hi I have a 16 day old via c section, I'm a FTM never having been around babies before as I am the youngest of my household and from a small family. My husband is fantastic with our little one. But ever since I've had the baby I just feel like the only thing I'm good for is producing milk. I feel disconnected from my husband like the only reason he's around is because am producing milk. We were having some issues before the baby and we're struggling it took a while to feel like he was onboard even though he said he was from the moment we found out. I dunno if I'm feeling like a spear part because I'm lacking confidence with baby or because I feel like he wouldn't mind being a single dad. Is this postpartum hormones or something else?

Avatar

2

6

When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Avatar

7

Crawling

Did anyone’s little one start crawling yet? I feel like we are falling behind but really have no idea. I’m trying to introduce more floor time but it’s been rough because of having hardwood floors and our 80 lb oblivious to life dog. I got us a carpet for the living room and trying to put the dog out more when the weather allows. She sits like a pro and will roll to get the things she needs😅 but no real signs of crawling yet.

Avatar

1

23

Read more on Peanut