Sex with condom eve though I’m pregnant
So I’m 20w pregnant and my husband always ejaculates in the condom even though I’m pregnant. Whilst we were intimate today I asked him to take it off just before he was about to finish and he didn’t and said he would last longer even though he told me he was going to finish?!!
I’m really confused why he finishes in a condom. We sleep in separate rooms and have been quite distance and he very rarely spends alone time with me. Last year I went through his phone and it has images of naked girls on it and he had a discussion about that but I’ve not mentioned it since. I’m just really bothered by the fact he would prefer to finish in a condom when before pregnancy he was dying to finish inside me.
Any tips on how to address this
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Girl there is so much to unpack, did you guys ever discuss the naked pics?
Yes they were Random girls off the internet that were sent in a group WhatsApp with his friends
this seems like an unlikely scenario, to be honest… did you see the group chat?
Honestly i would really suggest you bring it up keeping feelings inside/concealed can cause resentment and distance
How would you suggest I bring it up?
no I didn’t but I read some messages between a friend I didn’t have long
Maybe start with speaking about why you guys are sleeping separately, why distance has come between you trying to to get off any feelings on your chest try and bring the romance back
My son is cosleeping with me so it’s easier for us to be like this. I only stopped breastfeeding a few months ago
The messages were him and his friends talking about girls?
Does he have any stds that you are not aware of? Perhaps he us afraid of that harming the baby
no idea not that I’m aware of. We were having unprotected sex before I got pregnant so I’m not sure what’s changed
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