So I got too excited and fucked a guy after like 4 days

And he’s been acting different ever since. Less excited to talk to me, less eager etc. and it’s not even like we needed to do it. Idk why I rushed it. I brought it up and he’s saying all the right things but it just feels different. Not sure what to do 😕

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Don’t entertain anymore he’s a jerk

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Sounds like he just wanted sex

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I'm sorry. I know that feeling and it sucks. Kinda like a gut punch.
Idk what to do besides not be pushy. If he wants you he wants you. Don't overly text

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I’m sorry, it seems as if he got what he wanted and is trying to bounce. 😔

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Reciprocate his energy...

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Always protect your body count, health is wealth

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Normally, it's takes about 2yrs to get to know a stranger properly, ofcourse there are exceptions

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I would match his energy and see what happens. A guy that wanted more of a relationship wouldn't change after sex. If they wanted a relationship they should be more eager to talk to you after sex to get a better connection with you.

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Match the energy sis

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It’s good u found out early good riddance 🚮. I’m curious where did u find this guy and how was the first date/met up? 👀

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we met on an app and had a 24 hour date 😂 we did like so many things and didn’t wanna leave each other. And then we ended up by a pier and the sky started to get light around 5am. And so he asked if I wanted to take it inside and I brought him to my house smh

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Awww I heard about 24 hour dates before lol that’s dope tho at least you had fun. Maybe this was just meant to be an adventure in your path to finding the right man for you ✨🤍 I’m hoping you find the man you have been wishing for

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that was so sweet and nice if you! Thank you 😊

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Welcome love 💕

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Hold back messaging him now. He’ll either drift or come running; either way I hope you enjoyed your 24 hr date! It could be that’s all it was, but defo don’t chase or wait around now. If he wants you, he’ll let you know x

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Whyyy?

I get horny when my man isn’t around but when he’s around and in the mood I’m not. This last Thursday he made me squirt a lot for by birthday. We only get intimate like 2 times a month.

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Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

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Friends!?😊

Hii there! Just a mom looking for some friends to talk to through out the days. I’m from Ohio but don’t mind long distance friends. Feel free to message me!

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