Cheating husband

He had an 18 month affair? Or yall have been married for 18 months? Did he cheat on his ex wife?

18 month affair, married for 14 months and they both cheated on each other

His other 5 were all with his ex in fairness.

A man who is trying to get you pregnant 11 weeks postpartum is trying to trap you. Run!

girl run. and don’t look back

Some people stay because they accept this. He’s been unfaithful for the entirety of your marriage. If you want to ignore that, it’s your right, but he will do this probably forever.

The other one accepted that while being w her got married to you and is having kids w u? Or he plays parallel families

@Sophia No, I met him a year after him and his ex wife divorced, sorry if that wasn't clear

No but the one of the 18 months affair

@Sophia No, it's he's been multiple people but started 18 months ago. I found his "dating" profile chats. I'm absolutely f-ing raging inside, I want to commit so many self destructive behaviours rn and all I can do is look at my baby and know that I can't do any of it because I don't want to lose my baby, he's legit the only good thing in my life rn 😭

If he’s been cheating for that long he’s not going to stop. He was also cheating on his previous wife so he’s showing you he’ll never change. Run. You’re never going to be happy knowing he’s doing that and if he’s trying to get you pregnant again so soon who knows what kind of cooties he’s giving you. Get tested and leave with that baby. He has enough kids

It's not quite as simple as leave with the baby. Damn it, I wish it was. And before all of this happened, it was a joint decision to try for another as my consultant told me whilst pregnant if I wanted more than 1 child, I had a small window in which to try again after delivering my first. I moved to be with this man and rn his brother has my car because it broke down so I don't have a whole lot of options. I wish I did but I don't and I'm hurting so much 😭

Sorry for the long reply 😣

Confront him it will make you feel better

Contact the other woman, do you have her number? Contact her and get ALL the info you want before confronting. But definitely do not hold it in it makes it worse

Forgive quickly, tell him you forgive him so God will forgive you. The longer you hold on to anger the harder it is to forgive. Forgive before it’s too late. But still confront him. And I would leave!

If you’re not gonna say anything, make a secret escape plan. And PSA if you have proof of the cheating you can get out the Marriage and he won’t get any money

I would plan a secret escape. Get on the welfare that helps moms(if you don’t have a job) so you can have an income. If you have a job even better. Get the car fixed, start saving money, collect evidence. The Bible says if one of caught cheating divorce is justified

He's got this "dating" profile. There's too many to contact, I don't know if he's actually met with any of them either and I've logged into it from my phone and taken like 50 screenshots but he's brought me up in some of it making it look like I'm part of it so don't know if it'll be taken seriously as evidence

Wow he’s weird for saying that you’re apart of it… he’s a creep

You need to get into his phone

Yeah, tell me about it. In some of the chats it's like he's mentally pimping me out and to people that are older than my parents 🤮🤢🤮 I'm not sure which ones I'm more hurt by.

He seems like a weirdo. Well blessings to you. I’ll pray for you.

Thank you, you're too kind. I really appreciate it!

Save screenshots, if you confront him secretly record the confrontation, if there’s any other evidence use that in court too.

I don’t understand why you saw the he was divorced with 5 kids and thought that it would be a good idea. However, be glad you only have 1 kid with him and leave. People don’t change.