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yeah he definitely should've brought more than 1 bag just in case

n I told him lmk and I will come pick him bring him with me for a lil to my mom's 2 hours cause then i would have needed to pick the 2 year old up so im guessing since i said id bring him to my moms he decided to stay out longer ( my mom n him dont get along ) so im pissed hes still out n its been 7 hours and he only had 4ozz when he eats every 2-3 hours

Maybe he got him formula bc how is he not screaming his lung out 🤔

he's exclusively breast feed he's never had formula n that's my concern how is he Fine if he's only had 4 oz is 7 hours n breast milk is good up to 3 hours after being defrosted

N I even asked did u come back for more milk? I would rather u come back for milk then go 7 hours with only 4 ozs

Hopefully, he didn't feed him formula just to stay outside. Men can be that dense.
Go get your baby bc unless he fed him before leaving home and then around 3pm, he is either going to be fed bad milk, not being fed, or formula.

he litterly just got home 730 he's been out with him since 1230 an feed him one 4 oz bottle the entire time n is now walking around like he did nothing wrong and like I don't have a right to be mad !

i asked he brought 1 bag so in 7 hours he had 1 bag of milk n he knows how often he eats we live together n he sees how often he's fed n we've had multiple convos bout how often he's fed which pisses me off even more

I would kill him. Omg and was that poor baby not crying his head off? Mine screams bloody murder on the dot when he’s due. He’s an alarm clock.

I heard him on the phone saying that the baby slept mainly the whole time but in the last 2 months he has not slept longer than 30 min unless hes is sleeping on one of us n I don't believe he slept the whole 7 hours an just 1 feed when he litterly eats every 2-3 hours sometimes he eats even more off then that but now he ain't even talking to me cause I'n his eyes I'm trying to start an argument

I really hope he did sleep a lot like he said. I doubt he’d stay anywhere that long with a crying baby!

Now you gotta stay on top of him unfortunately and make sure he takes more milk than he thinks he’ll need if you can trust him again lol

So now that they are home. How is the baby? Was he super hungry or was he okay? Just tell him next time take 2 bags just in case to help ease your mind. I always take extra. So why not be prepared like a girl scout. Lol.

Taking two bags on the road wouldn't really do anything because defrosted milk won't last 7 hours. Unless he was in someone's home to keep it frozen...

Um no , I would lose my mind, my baby gets formula so it's easier to be out longer but still 1 4oz bottle is not enough for that long

he was def eating n eat n eating when he came home and drinking fast so u can 100 percent tell he was hungry

exactly n he wasn't gonna stay out until I said about bringing the baby over my mom's for a lil until I had to get my other son once I said that he decided to come back 7 hours later

I would kill him, that poor baby was probably starving all day

Oh man. I guess the silver lining is that baby was ok and not hysterical. Take the moment as a lesson and tell hubby that too. For future reference this is how it needs to be. Especially because baby is still learning habits too. (Tell dad that)

Always over prepare! He should have been told or known to take extra. You can plan to be out a short time and then something happens then your baby is without food.

Lately, when we know we are going somewhere we plan it so that baby is fed right before we leave. And then we take an extra mix of formula. This allows us to have 6-7 hours out of the house. Even then, I pack another 2oz extra just in case.

Can you store an “on the go” bag of at least 2 bags of milk in a small cooler in the fridge so that he knows to just grab the bag and it will always have what he needs?

we sort do the same. Just not an on the go bag. Our fridge is too small. Lol. Smart✔️

He believes he did nothing wrong and I have no right to be mad about him not going back to the house to grab another bag a milk ( he was 2 blocks away from our house btw) and just kepts saying I'm trying to start arguments n be petty

"It's not about right or wrong babe. It is about nutrition for our baby. Just because our baby doesn't cry doesn't mean our baby doesn't need something. Our baby needs to eat every 3 hours at least. And can't ask for food exactly but will be happy to be with daddy of course, just help me more with keep our baby's schedule" I'd say something along those lines. Lots of ours, and us and we. No I or me's making it a team effort. Good luck💙

exactly I'm not asking him to say he's wrong but I'm trying to get him to understand 1) u only feed him 4oz in 7 hours despite weather he was crying or no he still needs to eat it's our job to feed him regardless if he's crying or not

An 2) u told me you'd be back in 3-4 hours cause I wasn't comfortable with him being gone that long without me just yet you told me that's fine you'd be back no later then 4 hours but once I said about let me know when he's ready for me to grab him u ignored my messages and purposely kept him out longer after u said u understood me I get he's his dad n I'm not saying he's not allowed out with him ofc not but communication is key and how is went about that part was wrong

He is trying to start an argument by calling you petty. When all you want is to make sure the baby is okay. He's being a baby about this and needs to realize it is not about him.

yes he took our photos down from social media and is posting things like "I'ma fwu like u fwm"

Lol. My husband had that phase it's dumb. He doesn't do stupid stuff like that anymore. We've been together for 15 years.

Whomever is his voice of reason is, he needs to have a talk with him

Nooooo sometimes they cluster feed so you have to b prepared for that and he wouldn’t have taken my baby that long idc idc dads don’t tend to babies like moms do id b ready to fight