Mamas with depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders

Need advice.

Hi everyone. I'm looking for advice since I don't have a lot of people to talk too. I'm currently working a WFH job for my in laws organization. I also have 3 kids. Lately the work has been overwhelming. I can't keep up and I want to give my notice. I'm not happy doing it, I hate sitting at a desk all day. I hate that I work all day, see my kids for a few hours and go back to work. A few months ago I tried to give my notice and it was kinda swept under the rug. I said I would stay on the help train new people but they already left because it's too much. The problem is since they are family it's going to make it weird, and I'm so nervous about hurting our family financially. I'm def underpaid, but I'm making more than I would at retail. I would probably look into becoming a para at my son's school or subbing again. How would you handle this? I tried telling him last week I'm stressed and drowning and I pretty much was not believed. My husband started working here too and wants to help me but all he said was I don't need any help. I'm just sick and tired of the constant stress and mental exhaustion. I keep telling myself it will get easier and it's not. I just keep getting more work put on my plate and since they have no idea what to do I'm not getting any help. I guess I'm looking for any advice since I'm so torn. Thanks.

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Is this normal?

Is it just my husband that does this? He is able to work from home via his computer and in the mornings and evenings he is on there doing his job. When he is done for the day he tends to stay in the room and either play video games or watch something. He will occasionally come out and play with the girls for a few minutes and that’s it but when I really need him he says he is busy. My daughters are both 1 year old now and I am just wondering how much involvement should he have with them now?
Idk if this is the norm or not…..

Saying NO to buying toys etc

5 year old is getting really envious of others. He is obsessed with items that other kids have at school. I am pestered daily to buy these things in a different style when we already have 3 others. I have seen parents just buying stuff their kid likes which I don't necessarily agree with even when i can afford it. How do you deal with it?

Thoughts?

your soon to be brother in law (upon inquiry) told you that only a few kids from the family were attending his wedding because they are over the age cut off..

Tablet for kids

Alright don’t need any negative Nancy’s telling me not to get my 2yo a tablet so if that’s what your gunna do please don’t participate in my poll.

We’re about to move cross country 3+ day trip and my 2yo and 9m hate the car I’m talking scream their heads off till they are out of their seats. We’ve already changed car seats and it didn’t help so I’d like to at least have one entertained and sit next to baby and try and distract her or put her to sleep. Our new car has tvs but since they are rear faced my 2yo can’t see it.

Debating getting her a tablet or dvd player right now on long car rides I end up giving her my phone because I get so overwhelmed sitting in between both of them screaming and crying.

And yes I do bring different toys I bring snacks I play songs try to distract her other ways but for the sake of not losing my mind on this move I think this is best.

-A very overwhelmed and anxious to move mama 😓

Daycare?

Thoughts on daycare?? Truly, I am SCARED to be leaving my kid for daycare. I literally do not trust anyone, not even family (they haven’t given me a reason it’s just trust issues on my end, you never know). He’s turning 3 and I’ve been a sahm the whole time but tbh my man doesn’t make enough for us to move out somewhere more calm . We live in a ‘not so safe’ area in LA and I’m just not used to living here so I just want us to give my son a better life and in order to speed up the process I would have to work.. I do lashes at home and I’d be open to take new clients so I wouldn’t have to look for work but I’m just scared to lose my license 😭

5 month old activities

Hey everyone my baby is 5 months old and I want to reduce/cut screen time as I have read up on how bad it is what activities did people do to keep their baby entertained. Thank you in advance.