My boyfriend watching porn throughout my pregnancy has made me feel so insecure about my body. Not sure I love him anymore, would you accept this?

He knew I wasn’t comfortable with porn in a relationship. Towards the end of my pregnancy I found on his internet history that he had been looking on only fans models public material and watching lesbian porn. I don’t think he was talking to the models. Sometimes when I was in the next room sleeping and he was ‘showering’ . 7 months post C section and really struggling with my self image. Why are men so awful

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If he knew you were uncomfortable with it but continues to do it he blatantly is disregarding your feelings.
Build up your self-esteem get your body to what you want it to be so you don't have to rely on him to make you feel good.

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I told my boyfriend early on that I wasn’t comfortable with him watching porn. It made me feel like shit knowing he was getting pleasure from watching another woman. Since then, he hasn’t watched porn because he knows it’s an important boundary for me. Don’t back down on your boundaries, it’s perfectly normal not to feel comfortable with your SO watching porn, and he should respect that you’re uncomfortable with it.

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Honestly, regardless of the “agreement” you both have on how this will be treated in your relationship, unfortunately you cannot control them or know what they are doing at any given time. My ex knew I didn’t like it just because of the way it was gone about and as soon as I turned my back she was there masturbating to porn! I can literally just step into the kitchen to cook, go number 2, quickly clean something in another room, heck it didn’t matter but she would be quickly at it behind my back (even beside me in bed while she thought I was asleep) honestly it gave me big trust issues, made me loose respect and I stopped finding her attractive and even wanted to be intimate with her, so I’d really suggest trying to address this issue or voicing your feelings before you start feeling much worse

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If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Any mamas looking for a bestie

Hello mamas,

I have lost alot of friendships the last year and 4 months my babygirl meand the world to me but I would love to talk to some other mamas and hopefully find a bestie that doesnt mind me not responding quickly but will also be keen to call or meet up I'm based in Christchurch, New Zealand. A bonus if you dont mind ranting from me and also might have a partner that could get along with my fiance

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Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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Proud mom💕

First day in public wearing underwear & no accidents! We had a play date at my friend house even though I took her about every 1 or 2 hours its the fact she stayed dry, & poop as well💗

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