Sacramento mamas

Hi moms!
My name is Katie and I’m a new mom to a 10 month old girl. Who else feels like they are completely alone and have no actual friends especially ones that you can relate to? Ever since I got pregnant I feel like I’ve just kinda phased out of my friends and it’s so depressing. I’d love to meet moms in the area and create new connections and build real friendships! Mom life can get so lonely at times

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Hi! I have three kids but my older two are in school! My son in 11 months!
Let’s get together:)

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Yess girl same….its hard being a mom I’m now a mom of 2 and I definitely sleep deprived and distant from everyone

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Idk why maybe bc I can relate to anyone in my life rn but I definitely want to make that female friendship with kids yk maybe we can do play dates but it’s hard on this app bc no one really responds

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Hi. I messaged you!!

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Yes! I have a 6month old. It’s hard wanting to do group activities with kids, but not having any friends to do things with. I have friends that either don’t have kids, or have kids that are older.

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I have a 3 year old and a 8 month old

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I’m down to have play dates if anyone else wants to

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Thats exactly how I Feel. I'm in Elk Grove

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I like this app but I’ve also had a great experience joining Fit4Mom and meeting moms there. Nice way to work out with your little ones and meet moms. You should check it out!

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Hey girl same here! I’m in the natomas area and I have a 8month old girl.

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I’m sure we could all use a well deserved break too lol

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lol me. I have a 9 month old girl. Literally most of my friends left me while pregnant 🥲

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Same here girl. It’s crazy how common that is and it’s so sad 😭

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Their loss!!! 👎🏽 hopefully nobody does them the way they did us.

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Hi Katie! I feel you on this one, can totally relate. I’m a first time mom, baby girl is only 3 weeks but I’ve lost friends during pregnancy and doesn’t seem like it will get any better going forward. I feel like I need to make new friends, particularly moms and build real friendships too, but it’s so hard as an adult 😂 Feel free to message me! 🩷

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I’m down!!

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I’m down to have play dates. Needs someone to get me out the house more. I have a 1 year old and 3 year old. Message me if you want to set something up!

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10 month boy here and would love to meet up

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He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
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Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

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Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Any mamas looking for a bestie

Hello mamas,

I have lost alot of friendships the last year and 4 months my babygirl meand the world to me but I would love to talk to some other mamas and hopefully find a bestie that doesnt mind me not responding quickly but will also be keen to call or meet up I'm based in Christchurch, New Zealand. A bonus if you dont mind ranting from me and also might have a partner that could get along with my fiance

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Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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Proud mom💕

First day in public wearing underwear & no accidents! We had a play date at my friend house even though I took her about every 1 or 2 hours its the fact she stayed dry, & poop as well💗

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