Is it too late or is there hope

It’s super important to have a partner PP to help you take care of you. Your job is to care for the baby and his is to take care of you. And ofc he can help w the baby too but some babies only wanna be w their momma and that’s okey too.
If he’s not making you feel like he loves you and making your PP life easier I think it’s better to be alone ( my pov). You are already doing it all by yourself and he’s just there creating more emotional issues instead of supporting you emotionally and making you feel better. I understand the thought that we all have that we want to make it work for our babies but the baby deserves to see you happy and grow in a healthy and happy environment and if your bd doesn’t provide this then maybe it will be better for everyone to just part ways and learn how to co-parent.
ALSO all men cry saying sorry and that they will do better when you try to leave him but most likely he won’t change

This is the hardest time in virtually everyone’s relationship. It’s super easy to feel resentful when you feel or are giving more of yourself than your partner. Try and remember that in the span of your relationship and life 3 months is not a long time. I can say I have felt similarly so similarly I think I could have written this myself. BUT I have also realized it’s easy to view their effort in a negative light because you’re already upset. Take a step back and remember you’re both learning how to navigate this new life. Do not give up because things are hard right now it will get better.

i’m in this exact same situation 😕 it’s definitely hard!

This time is difficult in general, especially when you feel alone and unsupported.id talk with your partner and express the need for help with specific tasks. Dont just ask for blanket help cause then its harder to see a follow through.

Also you boy is a baby, he lacks the ability to emotionally regulate, comforting him when ever he cries is exactly what he needs. Don't anyone tell you otherwise. Babies communicate through crying.

I’m in the exact same situation. I’ve been trying to think my way through it but it’s just stressing me out too much to the point I’d rather ignore him than think about any of it. I’m sorry you are also going through this. Stay strong mama and one thing I’ll say is my mom keeps telling me that my baby is number one over all else and that’s what I’m focusing on 💕

I hear you. I’ve detached myself at this point because it quite literally drives me crazy and I’m so mad every time I’m around him. I told him the other day I wish I didn’t care anymore because if I didn’t care I wouldn’t feel this way

thank you this was well written

Give him specific tasks to do. I don't know what your relationship was like before, did he do much of home care stuff? If not, then I would expect him to not realize how much more work there is now. When he complains about baby crying remind him that's the babies language. If he still doesn't get it ..complain about him talking...in the same way he complains about the crying ..get him to understand how silly he's being about that.