Serious ? Naps dictating bedtime...

With this 4month regression taking over our lives lol aka our daytime naps... what time is your lo going down for bed at night? Am I offering this 30 min nap 5-6 times a day 🤦🏻‍♀️lmao... I've tried extending the naps but really am not having much success ..just curious like how many naps now I should be offering before calling it and just having an earlier bedtime 🤷🏻‍♀️😞 just when we started getting some routine lmao 🤪🙁

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Omg amen. Had five 30 ish min naps yesterday and then bedtime at 9:15. Exhausting. Today seems better, every day is different. Would like to get bedtime earlier but it just depends on the last nap and then usually a 2 hr wake window before bed. Interested what time others are doing for bed as well.

Up until this week she had 4 decent naps... 2 long and 2 short.. this week has been so off and today it's been 25-30mins each nap... we're on nap 3 and she woke after 25 mins so I'm currently swaying to not have an overtired baby lol don't know how long this will realistically last tho... her bedtime is generally around 9 but it's looking like today it'll probably be closer to 8. I wouldn't entirely hate short naps if her ww extended a bit more and if she wasn't so upset and cranky soon after 😞 it seems like we're just entering in the four month regression and I'm already so tired lol

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