Just Venting

Scrolling tik tok and came across my “friends” video on my FYP. She did a let’s be friends video and is apparently “the first of her friends” to have a baby…. It just hurts to see that and know I’m going to her baby shower in a few weeks. I’m beyond happy for her but I don’t know how to even navigate a friendship seeing that.
Like
Share Mobile
Share
  • Share

Show your support

Do you have a child also?

Yes…twin 2 year olds

Don't read too much into this... it's thoughtless, but she doesn't mean anything by it. If you must take away something, let it be that your friend wants to hang out with other moms who get what she's going through right now. (Like you!) Just let her know you're excited to see her when she's ready. If you've made a few offers to hang out and you're not getting anything back, mute her social media and wait until you hear something or the next time you feel like reaching out.

Read more on Peanut
Trending in our community