Yes…twin 2 year olds
Don't read too much into this... it's thoughtless, but she doesn't mean anything by it. If you must take away something, let it be that your friend wants to hang out with other moms who get what she's going through right now. (Like you!) Just let her know you're excited to see her when she's ready. If you've made a few offers to hang out and you're not getting anything back, mute her social media and wait until you hear something or the next time you feel like reaching out.
Do you have a child also?