Self feeding with a spoon

My lo is mostly blw. Any porridge/stew i will feed him with a spoon. I want to start to give him a bowl and a spoon. Problem is first thing he does is lifting the bowl and you know what happens.... if not that he will stick his hands and just mash whatever is inside. Should I just allow it? When and how to start? With favourite food? When he's done eating or hungry? He loves yoghurt, cottage cheese l, spaghetti. Which of these would be best to start with?

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Try loading the spoon for him to take hold of and put in his mouth. As he gets better you could try a plate or bowl that suctions to the highchair tray x

With BLW you have to embrace the mess. I've always had suction trays/bowls and have always put a spoon in, the one's with the balls on the end to encourage their grip. I started this at 6 months and yoghurt would just fall everywhere as she'd try to bring it to her mouth so she'd give up and just use her hands or I'd try to help her by ore-loading the spoon. However, in the last week (she's 10 months on Tuesday), she's started to try and scoop herself which is great, doesn't get anything mind 😂 so again I'll help her by loading it for her. She gets absolutely filthy sometimes but that's BLW for you 😂🫣

@Hannah thank you. We got him those small spoons and forks. He loves to munch on these. Doesn't matter if there's food on it or not 🤣 he will only let me put food on it a few times. Later, he just eats a spoon. Suction bowl i bough sucks. Stays on a tray for.less.than a minute, then it's throwned up high.to land on a floor.any recommendation for bowl??

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