If a man often jokes about himself being gay

He says it’s his dark humour. Is this a common dark humour theme? Also he says he is straight of course.

What kind of profession does he have? Because when I asked this to my spouse, his first question was "does he work in restaurant kitchens?" 😂

Lmfao This is likely the same poster who made the 1950’s husband post

looool he’s a courier 😂😂😂

nope, no idea what that post is

🫡 if you say so Incog

https://www.peanut-app.io/share/mRE5OikWwRb

This is a guy I’ve recently been on dates with and getting to know and I’ve noticed him making these jokes in almost every phone call we have so I’m curious.

My ex who was a bike courier had the same sense of humor lmao 😂
I don't think he was actually gay or anything, but he was curious about prostate play

gay

I would think they’re probably curious 🧐 I could be wrong and probably am lol.

I mean, maybe, though in my experience closet gays tend to joke aggressively about straight nonsense as a cover up.

I would likely say that he’s just confident and comfortable with his sexuality tbh

It’s either he’s hiding something or he has some toxic masculinity to work out. I personally have never found it funny when guys make gay jokes. “Yeah, I’ll take a spot light on my insecurities right here”

“curious about prostate play” is really taking me out

The results to this are so silly, joking about being gay doesn’t have any correlation with actually being gay

One time my sister dated this guy. They slept together a few times before she thought she had the realisation that he was straight up gay! She said he had very feminine characteristics, cleanly shaven from head to toe so pubic area was soft flesh and when she finally went to his house they were fighting over who got to wear his pink fluffy slippers, had pink feathered boas and a lot of pink! In the end I told her it was highly unlikely he was gay, just in touch with his feminine side however maybe a bit bi.. either way I told her to concentrate on the fact that he clearly wants to be with her otherwise he wouldn’t be there so whatever his sexuality, it really doesn’t matter. She couldn’t get past the thought he was gay though🤦🏽‍♀️

I always find it ridiculous that anyone thinks that they can just decide on someone else’s sexuality based on stereotypes.
I imagine it’s incredibly insulting to a lot of the LGBTQIA+ community tbh.

I agree and when she said it I couldn’t help but roll my eyes! I met the guy myself and nothing about him screamed out “I’m gay” like my sister suggested! Fact of the matter is, there isn’t a one type fits all in the LGBT+ community. We all have our likes and dislikes and I had a hard time getting her to understand a man can be as masculine as they come and be gay, in here eyes it was all about stereotypes and even more so.. if it was what she thought then she was right🤷🏽‍♀️. Well now she is “happily” married to a guy who she always complained was bad in bed and couldn’t satisfy her and the list of problems went on so… good luck with that😅

I figure that the jokes were because he was worried being into that made him "gay"

In my personal experience closeted men are much more likely to be outwardly homophobic or sexist with their jokey jokes to try to fit in with their perception of what a straight man would do/say. Men who make jokes about themselves being gay I’ve never found them to be closeted at all, like clearly they’re comfortable enough to allude to that and portray that about themselves so why would they hide it if they actually were gay or bi? You know what I mean lol

I frequently see people joke about being gay when they are either In the closet, actually gay, or some degree of Bi/Pansexual (which is my case, personally)

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