Need advice on my partner
Me and my partner have a mutual agreement that he cares for our baby over the weekend (including the night) as in the week hes home at funny hours due to work. If he decides he wants to go out with his mates I happily look after our little one but this weekend we got into abit of an argument I went bed and at around 11pm and woke up to him not at home and our baby crying, he had snuck out to go clubbing and left me with the baby, I wouldn't be bothered if he had told me before I went sleep so I knew to wake up with the baby but he didn't he also lied to me when he eventually got home at 4 that he had been round a mates. I've chose to try and move past it but I'm just wondering what other people would do in this situation x
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That’s what I would do. ^^
I’d be more annoyed at the fact he didn’t tell me before he left & then lied about where he went ….
snuck out to go clubbing. i’m sorry is he 16? tell him to grow the fuck up and arrange plans before hand. i would absolutely not put up with this behaviour. sounds childish and weird.
What said, he is acting like a teenager “sneaking out” & lying about it. Not letting you know you’re the only one home with baby. He’s a fucking parent now. Instead of just being an adult and making plans he genuinely chose this route?! “choosing to move past it” just lets him think it’s okay and will probably happen again. Since he acts like a child, Sounds like he needs to be grounded.
Jesus, yeah, definitely an ICK I didn’t know I needed to have 😳
Like obviously this is bad… sneaking out and not telling you… but like personally i would wonder why did he sneak out? If you have open dialogue and you tell him to go have fun…. Why did he feel he needed to sneak out this time… and to the club… like… are you sure he’s not cheating cuz why else would he sneak? Like it makes no sense unless he was doing something he’s not supposed to since you tell him to have fun….
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