Handling toddler with hyperemesis

I am 18 weeks pregnant and I am having hyperemesis.This is my second pregnancy.
In the first trimester it was hell I only wanted to rest and still do I'm on anti sickness medication.
I want to ask you all how are you managing a toddler in pregnancy.
My 3 year old now only wants to sit with me she has increased screen time and socially awkward because we didn't go out due to my conditions.
Its just me and my husband and her when my husband is working she is there with me all the time and I don't have energy to play with her so she ends up watching some cartoons and not want to go out.
I feel so guilty that have a ruined my 3 year old girl 😔

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No advice really sorry but wanted to say you’re not alone.. I am in the same boat, it’s awful.
I’m only a week ahead of you at 19 weeks, and I’m having to force myself to go back to work because I just can’t afford to be off sick.

I just keep telling myself that it isn’t forever!
My toddler is a bit younger than your child, at 21 months.
I just try and do things whilst my partner is at home.
My symptoms have eased a little.. but I’m still taking ordansetron 3x a day.. and I asked to take more medication to control nausea but the Gp said I can’t take anything along side it.

But I just try and get activities we can do together from the sofa or I sit and play at his kitchen or train table, read books. And nap with him :) xx

I am in the same boat I have a two year old and a four year old. It’s been aweful, and the mom guilt is worse. My four year old said to me this morning “are you really starting the day throwing up again mom? You throw up too much!” Like girl I know it! Today I set up their water table with shaving cream to play with, small victories is all I can do. We eat way more snacks than nutritional food, and watch way too much tv otherwise!

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My boyfriend booked a trip for us to go to mexico for a week as my push present. I have severe anxiety leaving my 7 month old with my mom. I know she will be in good hands but she’s exclusively breast fed for the most part but accepts bottles just fine. i have all my pumping parts packed and will pump when baby normally eats but i don’t want baby to forget me or have latch issues when i return!! any mommas ever experience this?

Postpartum

I’m only 3 days postpartum (FTM) and already have extremely bad anxiety. I’m crying every night, as I think of another night of no sleep. My baby will not settle in his cot, he cries every moment we put him down unless in his chair rocker. So me and my partner are having to alternate after 3/4 hours of being awake with him downstairs. I’m trying everything to get him to settle. It’s a load of overwhelming stress. I’m 23, I was desperate for a baby and now I have one and feel completely useless. I miss it just being me and my partner.

When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Night time routine

Heya, my 3 week old daughter is currently exclusively breastfed and I’m not pumping. Can anyone recommend the best way to share the load with my partner? At the moment I’m doing all the feeds/burbs/settling and my partner is sleeping through which obviously isn’t sustainable, I’m trying to work out the best way to get him involved. Any advice very much appreciated!

Rapid cool/ hot shot method

Sorry if this sound stupid but how are we doing the hot shot method?
Are we boiling the kettle and letting it cool a little before adding to hot flask? Then with the cool water do you boil the kettle and leave it to cool right down before putting into another flask?
My baby brain is fried trying to work out the easiest way!

Rant/WWYD

My sister (youngest, 24) has two kids, 4 & 1, and i (oldest, 30) just have my one who’s 6mo old right now, so i ask her for advice or call her to vent about things sometimes. Well im tired of her turning around and telling my other family members that I’m “losing my sh*t.” Literally have not lost my sh*t nor have i ever freaked out to her about my baby, i just call her to talk and tell her what stage my baby is in or talk through how im feeling, but she chooses to tell people that im like a complete nutcase or something which worries me that my family is going to start being judgmental about me as a mother or looking at me funny like I’m some fragile ticking time bomb.

What would you do in this situation? I’m already pretty much decided that I’ll stop telling her anything about my struggles, but I’m almost at the point where i feel like it should be confronted because she, of all people, should understand what I’m going through.