So I have to know if this is cuase his drunk or something esle

It’s both stupid and drunk… and careless… and reckless… selfish… what if he got in an accident?!! What if hurt himself or someone!?! The way i would be soooo fucking mad!! And I would consider if I would want to marry someone who is so selfish and careless!

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@Lyss I am mad since he thinks inviting me to do things n having pur son attached to my hip is fun I have fun yes but i would like it be 5050 or have a child free night so I can have more fun I do all the child care when I get off work he barely does any at night since he sleeps almost all night , all I want is 5050 when we go out with our son or one day just 1 where he does all child care so I can sleep good for work I don't think it's unreasonable to do thst

@Lyss how hard is it just to give me a day with out our son or of we go out him take all child care inless his working on the van with his dad (the only reason why I should be doing it all ) or do 5050 when we go out so I can enjoy the thing we are doing ? I'm upset I'm wanting to cry but I'm at work so I can't

@Tiara it's not like he does much when he home with our son since our son just sleeping n maybe gets up once a night for a bottle or a diaper change ..... when I'm home with fiance n son I'm doing everything n don't get a break , when I get fed up I put our son in the swing then if he still being fussy fiance takes him out the swing n puts him in his bed with a bottle and leaves him with me when I'm trying to sleep for work , I can't even get enough sleep for work I get it I work nights but y can't I just get a break when fiance off work n him do it all when I'm trying to sleep ? With the small amout i can get to being with out our son ? I get it I signed up to do this but so did he when I told him I'm pregnant but me doing everything is making me so fed up with everything cuase the only alone time I get is at work 😭 when I'm pumping or the bathroom / in the shower

I said both but now that I think about it deeper-he knows exactly what he’s doing, i don’t want to act like he’s too stupid or drunk to know he has the car or to know he needs to put in more effort with his family. He knows he is just too selfish to care. He sounds very immature. The most important thing is the children-make sure you aren’t so busy chasing a mans attention and effort that you forget what you do have and what the child needs 💕 Cause at the end of the day you cant make someone step up and do their part but you can choose how you deal with it and if its something you want in your life. Honestly, I would greatly consider dumping him-if he doesn’t help anyway and just causes stress from drinking and stuff, its not good for you or baby. But thats just my opinion, I don’t know you’re whole situation.

Did he forget or does he just care enough to remember ? 🧠

@Tiara this is the 1st time after we had the baby he done something like this but the 2nd time (very 1st time was about 8 or 9 months in to our relationship but that's due to some shit happening when he had the car n it wasn't starting n he sent a video of the reason)

@Celestial he has adhd n uses it as a reason of forgetting for alot of things but I also have adhd ..... I don't use it as a reason of being forgetful or anything like that I use it when I get distracted by a movement or sound / or being hyper focuses on something

@Lyss he has 2 other kids ik his ex who harassing me can tell me but idk the 1zt one to ask also but she does imma have her ask when I get less pissed / overwhelmed from this shit on top of not doing my job n getting pulled to do something esle

Yeah my car is mine, ain't nobody using it but me, like ever lol

imma tell him to take his scooter from now on no matter what inkess om coming with him since of this due to his bike being broken

I'm sorry if I'm not understanding, it's 4 am where I'm at and I'm sick. Did he drive drunk???

@Raqi yes , he was driving I gave him a hug n kiss before getting in the car to drive my self to work , I wasn't gunna let him drive me since he has forgotten to pick me up from work before I have called him over 100 times to get me after work, then when I was pregnant I almost blacked out at work had to sit down got sent home called hom 20 to 30 times and he never answered n I had to drive my self home and called him an other 10 times when I got home to get help to go up the stairs cuase I wasn't feeling right n didn't want to fall n nothing when I got inside he wasn't even home when I left for work he was home I asked if he had plans like always incase something happens at work cuase I was pregnant , and he said yes n if something changes or happens he'll tell me n never did n when I got on his fb I told someone to send his ass home his pregnant gf fucking needs him now n I blew her up cuase the last messages was from her n he was there last n I was pissed off cuase 1 I told him not to hangout with her

One on one n he had sent her a Pic of her self in the fucking bath from the same room from what It looked like , he said she was taking a bath with the door open 😑😒 bs lie n her sending a pic of her legs in the bath blahblah blah etc bullshit so I assumed he was there with her

He lost his phone took the car to work 😑 didn't wake me up to let me know anything so I have no idea where he is or of he went to work

Are you sure you want to marry a man like this?

I didn’t mean to click anything. Being drunk is stupid so it’s both

his definitely making me question everything since apparently adhd is WHY HE FORGOT THAT HE HAD THE CAR