4th baby anyone?

Do you, or do you not go for baby no.4 ? Let's hear all the pros and cons (for a bit of fun) we're on the fence!

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Just had my 4th 7 weeks ago, I was adament i didn't want anymore when I started dating but I met my now partner and he changed my mind best thing I ever did. I have 15,14, nearly 13 year olds aswell xx

Was there anything that persuaded you one way or another, things like needing a bigger house or an extra bedroom? Needing a bigger car ? I really doubt anyone has a 4th then regrets it, but wonder what persuaded people

He was a great dad to my 3 i already had. He didn't have any children of his own. And just felt right I guess. I do need a bigger car 🤣 xx

That's really sweet xx

this is the same as me but I’m on my 3rd, such a big age gap though I don’t want her to be like an only child so not sure if to have a 4th 😂🙈

same I have just had my 3rd to my partner last week and we both have two kids age 11 and 15 to our previous partners and this is our 1st together! But we are 41 and 35 now and now we have her we would love to give her a sibling and have another together in couple years but our age is getting on a bit and I suffered a lot this pregnancy and also we have no room. His 2 come every week for 2 nights a week so between us we have 5 kids! If he had none and this was his 1st I think i would defo have a 4th but don’t think it’s possible now for us sadly! X

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Please be nice as I have anxiety…

So I’m 20 weeks pregnant and I went to the hospital for light bleeding when I wipe ( not ever time though).. the doctor told me it was due to sex and that my cervix was irritated has anyone else experienced this? And or know way to just calm my anxiety from it

Dabs

Anyone take a dab or two when pregnant? I’m about 20weeks today.

Anyone else due 1st May?

I’m wondering whether I’ll have an April or May baby, thought she’d be late originally because she’s my first but I’ve had this weird feeling recently she’ll be early… if you’re in the same position what do you think?

Milestone anxiety

Anyone else really struggling because baby hasn’t hit certain milestones yet? My anxiety is overwhelming me.

Anxiety with the bump.

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and I’ve suddenly developed a massive anxiety around anyone standing behind me. My husband is annoying me so much because even though I’ve told him how it makes me feel, he’s continued doing stuff in our kitchen (that is tiny anyway) and sliding past me to grab things. I know the baby is safe even if I were to bump the bump a little but even the thought of it is still making extremely anxious. How do I cope with this feeling and is anyone else going through the same sort of thing?

Breathless and feeling like I need to be sitting constantly!

Has anyone else been feeling this way as they're getting closer to their due date?

I attempted to change our bedding this evening and had to call my husband for back up as I literally felt like my lungs were going to explode just trying to reach over to put the sheet on.

I'm huffing and puffing just getting my toddler into his pjs, and I was sat down! Like what is going on 😮‍💨🥲

Everything has been check ie bloods etc so I think it's just general pregnancy as I'm now 38 weeks. My bump feels like it weighs about 100lbs 😭