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My bd ended things with me because he said the relationship was affecting his mental health to the point that he has been looking other women in a way he shouldn’t as he’d been checking out of the relationship.He said it’s nothing I’ve done or not my fault so I’m struggling to figure out what or where that came from or how to make sense of it.

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He just wants to leave you period

I’m so sorry I know exactly how that feels

In all honesty, Sadly people grow apart and it can be one sided. Wandering eyes means he’s already checked out.
But, at least he was honest with you instead of choosing to just cheat.

Went through this with my bd.i feel your pain 😞 Said it wasn't my fault he just fell out of love with me.after all we had been together nearly 11 years he said he needed to work on his mental health
meanwhile he was entertaining a coworker that he worked with taking her out to lunch staying out till stupid hours of early mornings and all sorts of things while I was pregnant with his second child from one mumma to another stay strong♥️

Be thankful he’s leaving before cheating I would accept it as him doing the right thing and move on myself.

I really can’t imagine ever saying this to another person.

exactly that’s a way of leaving her

Pretty sure it’s cause he meet someone and wants to get rid of you because he wants to be with her some men are trash

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So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

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