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How can you heal & move on from being cheated on by your BD?

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Focus on yourself your time your energy going back to your old self doing what you love an makes you happy an put the same effort into ur child an don't look back

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It's hard, really hard.
Some days, you're gonna be fine, you'll laugh with your baby, and be optimistic about the future.
And sometimes, you'll cry and miss the family you imagined.
But keep in mind that you're doing it for you and for your baby.
You deserve to be happy♡

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As these other ladies said, you have to find that love for yourself before focusing on the relationship between you and him, bc otherwise -

A lot of times, both men and women, when cheated on but didn't take the time to heal, and their partner was legit sorry and trying to gain you back... But the insecurities of the one that'd been cheated on creates a war zone for the couple, and sometimes even everyone nearby.

It's not fair for either person in the relationship for that level of toxicity, BUT - if you take the time to find that love for yourself, and decide you still want to take them back, so long as they didn't do any other monkey business while you were taking that time for yourself, 🙈 then sometimes people get through it just fine.

If you truly love this person and they truly are sorry, then I hope this does work out for you guys for your own sakes, and for the baby's.

❤️👍☺️

Also feel free to msg me if you want to talk. 🥜

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Thank you all so much for your kind words and guidance. It really means alot to me. Thank you mummas! 🫶🏽❤️🌸

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In the same position mine was domestic abuse related and I’ve been out 6 months he cheated on me the whole time tbh wanna chat you can message me x

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