Anybody else struggling to make friends? I don’t have friends not to talk of a best friend. No one seems to want to have a conversation that flows else it ends in couple of days like it’s a struggle
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Hey Bee, I know the feeling 😌 I’ve sent you a message anyways. Have a great week!

Totally get it! And this app is supposed to be about making friends🙄

I get you and it’s tiring for real

exactly. It is supposed to be about making friends but I guess it’s really not

it’s very tiring honestly. Makes one feel alone on some days 😔. I randomly just drive around town with my little one 😆 without a direct place to go, I mean just to keep my sanity.

I find this therapeutic 😆

I agree with you. I honestly don’t like if I’m the only one putting in efforts and the other isn’t, makes it seem like one is forcing the friendship or it’s probably not wanted.

yes it shouldn’t. With me, it feels like some gives a one off response so the chats gets to a dead end and they barely contribute. I mean it gives the vibe of “I’m not into this or trying to make it work”

Exactly. And we all claim oh we are finding it hard to make friends, this and that

I've had people talk to me, follow me on insta for a time and seems it's going well just to remove me randomly mid convo, I've messaged first many times just to be completely blanked too. Takes the wind out your wings a little because all you want is that interaction/ connection just to feel human. I feel you. It's not everyone but there are a lot of people who just don't consider feelings or don't know what they want. I hope you know it's no reflection on who you are & anyone would be lucky to have your company. It's what I keep having to tell my pregnant scared self anyway 😂🫠xx

it happened to me and honestly it made me give up on wanting to make friends for a while. Damn. I reacted and got talking with someone who posted about wanting friends and whatnot only for me to start getting one reply text. Like for real, it’s really not a deal if you don’t want to be friends with someone but you shouldn’t reply them. 😆 It made me feel like I was desperate for a friend and made me step back from trying.

oh my, i completely don’t like this. And yes, they are inconsiderate it makes others feel they’ve done something wrong or desperate.