Life is so fucking unfair!!!

My appointment didn’t go as planned today. Did my ultra sound and they saw the sack but no baby. The first ultrasound I did couple weeks ago, they saw the baby and my lil munchkin had a heartbeat. And now they’re not seeing it

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I’m sorry for your loss

I'm sooo sorry! *hugs* 🫂

I'm so sorry. Went in for my 7 week ultrasound and they didn't see anything even though I was still testing pregnant. It's taken 6 more days to be sure it's ectopic and now I have to take methotrexate and can't try to concieve for 3 months. 😭 I feel your disappointment and loss.

literally yesterday and days before I felt movement in my stomach and there was a healthy heartbeat. It’s so crazy to me. Even now I’m still feeling movements. My friend who’s a nurse told me to call my doctor.

I’m so sorry love. Did you get another ultrasound? Did they determine anything? I would go to the ER

They scheduled another ultrasound for Thursday and one for next week

my friend told me to go to the er and get it checked out if I still feel movements

mine was just like that. No baby showing. And the first two had the baby and the heartbeat.

Yeah my baby and its heartbeat could be seen from some angles and from some the sac was just empty like that. Did they give you any information or diagnosis for why this could be? Weird, especially since you’re still feeling movement

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