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So I feel like I’m at my breaking point.

Long story short.. I have lived with my ex for almost a year and I would see questionable things with him and his mother.. we have two children together and I’m starting to feel like I don’t want my children around either one of them. His mom doesn’t respect my boundaries.. (such as giving my baby water before 6 months).. asking him after I said NO. Uhh idk his mom said a weird joke that I thought was gross. Like he was playing the video game and his mom was holding my daughter and was like putting my daughter really close to him and was saying let her play with the joystick.. and was looking deep into his eyes. Idk why but I felt extremely uncomfortable it was super weird. No one calls a PS4 joystick, a joystick. We all know what it is. But I know joystick also means a pen*s in slang. I’ve also caught his mom rubbing his inner thigh. While we were driving! I came upstairs one day and they were drunk playing with eachother. I also went upstairs and he was playing on his laptop but her bra was on his foot? I’m just like what the f is going on.. there was a time she was bent over in front of him and he rested his hand at the bottom of her back near her behind.. I’m thinking …are there no boundaries or what the heck is going on. This was my final straw before I moved out. We were looking on his instagram and there was a meme on his page that said “hey would you have sex with your partner in front of your family , for a billion dollars”. I said I don’t think I could do that. He also agreed that he couldn’t. But we went through the comments and someone said “shoot I could but hey I see mom watching I’d want her to join in”. HE LITERALLY WAS LAUGHING SO HARD ABOUT THAT? I said what’s so funny about that? That’s not funny at all.. and he got super mad at me and told me to let it go.. I just flat out asked him do you have like an incestrous relationship with your mom or have you been groomed at all? He got super mad! He almost wanted to put his hands on me but because I was holding our daughter he just left and didn’t come back. After a week of being there I moved out and took my daughter with me. But now he wants to keep her and his mom watches her. I do NOT feel comfortable with either of them watching her.. am I crazy? Am I overreacting y’all. Please let me know. I want to get full custody of my children.