Intimacy

Guys
My S* life is in shambles 😭
My husband wouldn’t approach me and i keep thinking whats wrong and he says he’s just stressed with work and all, i remember last pregnancy he was also like that and said he feels uncomfortable with the baby and all.
But i feel It’s unfair because all i want rn is to be intimate and It’s causing frustration and lack in confidence.
Hows everyone dealing with that?
My husband is an over-thinker and It’s very annoying. I just want him to go for it smfh. (Sometimes i try and go for it but It just gets frustrating to always try and sometimes it doesnt even work)

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in our community

STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

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If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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What happened to Zainab

Hey guys haven’t been on here in a sec! Just come to realise I haven’t seen any posts / comments from Zainab (I’m sure that’s her name 🫠) hoping she is ok , I’m sure she was a Mod but can’t seem to find her anymore 🤔

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