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Is it just me or people on this app are indecisive or confused? Is it because of too many options? I mean there’s no consistency in the conversations? One day they’re so warm and the second so cold or ghost? Make your mind up please.

So hard to find genuine mum friends who will actually keep up the bond.

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I think it's just that when you have kids you get busy with life and completely forget about the app to the point you don't have time for it. That could be the reason why there's inconsistency, especially the beginning stage of conversations.

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But also I when I was in UAE I also didn't see alot of moms in this app . Maybe they don't know much about it 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I know what you mean. Alhamdulillah ive managed to make friends on here(been trying to find more mom friends besides the single friends i have lol) but ive also met some that even ghosted us when we were supposed to meet up - no txt, didnt answer the phone (there were three of us who were supposed to meet so luckily two of us showed up). Maybe its different over here in abu dhabi tho - its a bit more chill than dubai. I hope you find a good mom group to hang out with. Youre also welcome to come to ad if you have time.

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I'm on the same boat! It's really tough to make friends here in Dubai

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I know

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I hear you and I feel you. 💟

What has worked for me is to quickly move the conversation to WhatsApp or Instagram and then quickly schedule a coffee date 1:1 or like we both book to go to an open ‘moms-to-be’ event together where there will be other people also.

Some people I ”just” remain penpals with due to conflicting schedules/lives but we have good conversations and support each other online.

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