I wish I had real friends that would help me more then anything else in the world but I don’t have that at all

I want real help to get my kids back

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It's tough gurl but courage

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Why were your kids taken? We’re they taken by the state?

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Base on lies

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i feel like there’s more to the story. they don’t just take kids - they need decent evidence to remove children from a household…

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Don’t be assholes.

Whether there is more to the story or not and whatever the story is, all she is asking for is a little help, not the same response that she has probably heard from other people that can be perceptive as judgement.

Girl, I don’t know your story, nor do I care to unless you choose to share but prove that you can provide for your kiddos. Follow up as much as you can and continue to grind. Getting kiddos back is always more challenging than them going away. Don’t give up and continue to fight. Don’t give anyone a reason to pull the crazy out of you.

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P.S. happy to be a friend if you want. Feel free to message me.

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it was just a question in order to help her. We need more info in order to help sometimes lol. Wasn’t judging at all. Don’t assume

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never said you were judging, i said your question can be perceived as judgement. Whether taking by the state or not, what difference does it make? They kids were taken.

Plus, she answered your question and you never responded. What does that say?

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she answered half of my question and didn’t give me much. It’s ok you don’t have to start a fight for no reason. I hope she works hard to get her kids back. Things can be perceived differently online 💛

Also it does matter if they are taken by CPS or just taken. The advice would be way different depending on that answer. So my other half of the question does matter.

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