My husband is taking this miscarriage more emotionally than I am

I just found out that the fetus doesn't have a heartbeat anymore. I'm 8w3d and baby was measuring 6w or so. I'm thick skinned and have just accepted that this one wasn't meant to be even though they gave me lots of severe nausea and exhaustion haha.

My husband seems to be a lot sadder and emotionally attached by this news. Idk what's wrong with me, I dont know what to say to him because I do want to empathize and be there for him but I'm finding it so hard when I'm not emotionally affected by this

All I'm thinking about is I hope to pass all of it naturally with no leftover tissue. I'm given the option of either mife/miso or natural period. D&C was not mentioned at all by midwife.

I had only told my parents and inlaws who have now been informed about the miscarriage. Anyways, my thoughts have been dumped here lol

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Day out after c section

Hey,
I had an emergency c section 1 week ago I obviously don't want a day out right now but I have things booked for the Easter holidays so in 2 weeks. I was just wondering if I will be overdoing it if I have a day out then or will I be ok? I would still take it as easy as I could. When did everyone feel good enough to go out?

Invited to a chuckie cheese party but I don't have money and don't want to tell my daughter that's why we can't go. Does anyone know how their parties work?

I'm not sure how chuckie cheese parties are. If they give you money to play or not if you're in the party. And then I'm wondering if it's an actual birthday party or if they're just going to chuckie cheese. Some guy in my building told me a couple weeks ago that his son's birthday is today and he's thinking of doing chuckie cheese. They sent an invite but I feel so insecure not being able to afford anything. Like if they don't have food for example. Idk what to do.

20week scan!!

i had my 20week scan yesterday, everything looked okay on baby and we found out the gender!! it’s a girl 🩷🩷. but they said that my placenta is too close to my pelvis and they need to do extra scans to check on it? has anyone else been told this?

Reduced Movements

Has anyone else gone in for monitoring for reduced movements and as soon as you arrive at triage the baby starts moving and the CTG is normal? It makes me feel like I am over reacting.

2nd pregnancy after c section

I’m not planning on getting pregnant anytime soon but in the future possibly. I just wanted to know how is pregnancy after c section like my fear is having to go through another emergency operation or even putting strain on my incision during pregnancy

Newborn stage

Is anyone tired of doing the same thing everyday and being on a 2-3 hour schedule? It’s the same everyday and I feel like I’m losing my mind. It’s making me depressed even if I get out once a day. When does it get better? I feel like I’m just waiting for the next stage where it’s not just sitting around all day.