How do you deal with your boyfriend and the father of your child asking for sex

I've been so stressed out with taking care of our daughter, getting her doctor appointments, speech therapy set up, my doctor appointments, my mom's appointments, etc.... and all he thinks about is sex sex sex.... like dude I'm not in the mood I'm stressed to the max with everything, but when I bring up that I'm not in the mood he comes back and he's like it's been x amount of weeks or months and then I'm the bad guy and it feels like he just using me.....

Like how am I supposed to be in the mood when I'm stressed out about everything with our child, my mom, and my appointments

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"OK. Well, maybe if you took on some of the mental load of parenting, I'd have energy to be in the mood."

@Charlotte see I've tried that but then he always says " well you can bring her over here for a week" but he goes to work at 7 in the morning and Noone is there to take care of her his mom can't do it and his dad works

@Taylor Have him start with 24 hours of solo parenting and work up to more time. It took the both of you to make the baby. Both of you should be parenting. If he won't step up, he needs to step out

@Charlotte true and I've expressed this millions of times but then he always turns it on me and says "well you're keeping her from me" I feel like it's not my job to take her over there for them all to see her when I've done that since she was 3 months old

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