Threesome while in a relationship

You’re too pretty to deal with someone so perverted and immature.

This is why I refuse to tell my partner about my bisexuality, because I don’t want to feed into a potential fantasy, and ruin my experience with women.
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that.

Respect yourself and ask yourself what you really want. Don’t put him first. It’s completely your choice.

His timing is definitely off for sure but I think it's good he finally told you and at least he was honest that he wouldn't be comfortable with another man joining. The real question is how would he feel if you said you're not and never will be comfortable with a threesome?

agreed

I would say no

my partner and i have talked about a threesome with another woman one day, he knows i’m attracted to women as well. i think you should only do it if you want to and are 100% comfortable with it. obviously his timing bringing it up isn’t the best, it makes sense you’re not at all interested while being pregnant. the double standard would have my upset though. at least he’s being open with you. i think you should tell him your honest feelings, sweeping it under the rug and pretending you’re okay when you’re not isn’t healthy for either of you

Wait it’s one thing for him to say he wouldn’t want another man in the bedroom but to threaten to leave you if you even ask? And to make this threat while you’re pregnant? I’m sure he has many redeeming qualities, but that is an incredibly scummy thing to do.

My partner and I have talked about a threesome but he’s never brought the idea up to me I always talked to him about my fantasies about that. But one it’s definitely disrespectful while pregnant and I don’t know if everyone has the and feelings but it’ll make me wonder I’m not good enough. You’re beautiful and are going through vulnerable moment right now and a special moment too being able to carry your child and being able to support new life without the headaches and worries from a man — have you tried talking to him about how this made you feel?

Hey girl!!!! I’ve had this EXACT CONVO. With my man before…. I was hurt message me if u need to girl!!

Definitely had this convo with my Bf of 7 years a few times . At first I was offended & questioning if I wasn’t enough for him. He’s not as sexually experienced as me so I told him if he feels he needs to do that to go ahead without me. After more talks my attraction to women is what makes him want to because we most likely aren’t parting ways & wouldn’t be with other people so it’s an experience we could share with mutual interest & satisfaction. I’d definitely let him know how it made you feel & if you’re so not down & never will be , make it known. Pregnancy itself is a hard time physically/emotionally . Definitely wasn’t the time to mention it . Sorry mama

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Personally, if I heard this while 5 months pregnant, I wouldn’t do it or consider it. I’d ask him why he’s never shared this non-monogamy kink in the past 4 years, and why he waited until you were 5 months pregnant to bring up wanting to sleep with other women. I’d question why he’s thinking so much about how to have the “hottest sex ever!!!” Instead of building a nursery or researching car seats. He should also start learning everything he can about newborn care and child development. Maybe that’ll be a new hobby for him, it can take his mind off of threesomes that will never happen

A couple of posts up a girl did just this and now hurt by the outcome. Don’t do it. Most men’s fantasy is to have a 3sum at least once, and if it’s not with you it may be with someone else down the line but it’s a slippery slope. My man is mine only I don’t share and I hope he does feel the same way. He can fantasise all he likes. Jealousy always pops up in a 3sum and even if the intention wasn’t there, someone is bound to get hurt.

A deep conversation is very much needed. You have to be 100% comfortable. He also needs to understand it’s not going to be as easy as he thinks especially if you’re attracted to women yourself. You may have more of a connection with her than him and it won’t feed his fantasy if he gets left out. Although judging on his reaction to you with a male maybe he should experience it for being a dick. Just never do something your not comfortable with and telling you whilst pregnant with hormones raging and everything was a bit of an idiot move.

Flat out no .. not right for you

In my opinion that’s the ending of the relationship. You’re a kink not the love of his life and mother of his child. I’m so sorry

What an asshole

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Text me!!! Please

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He should respect your feelings

Daym thats very hurtful of him to say.. there might be something deeper there