Hey, so my partner watches porn and i know it's okay, but I can't help but feel jealous and insecure. I Had a baby 4 months ago and feeling really gross with my body it's probably why I feel so insecure about.I don't know any tips to get over it tho
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How you feel about porn is how YOU feel. There’s differing opinions depending on who you ask. If your partner isn’t hearing you out & disregarding your feelings about it, you might want to reevaluate the relationship.
My husband has been aware I watch it way before we got married & doesn’t care. I don’t exactly have much of a choice as he’s been away for work since March.

My partner was the same. I kicked off but he’s still doing it… nothing changes lovely no matter what

You have to have a conversation about it, unfortunately
Found my other half watching porn when we started living together, rejected me for sex but was happy to watch porn? I questioned him and there were actually deeper issues for him and 7 years and 2 kids later we are still always working on our sex life, I know he still watches porn sometimes, he knows my views on it but whatever its more the timing for me and if whether we are sexually active or not
Its a hard topic to approach and some men just dont get it or see porn as a big thing, all you can do is try and have a calm conversation and get him to try and see it from your point of view
Be transparent about your feelings and know that he is most likely not attracted to or thinking about those women. it's just fantasy
Maybe try and see if there's anything new you can try together.
You can also be a little flirty, send pics and texts to him, make him think of you, and might give you a confidence boost.
Good luck, x