Who has a family group chat and who’s all in yours?

Just curious if others have close knit families and me. Feel free to comment other dynamics

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There's multiple group chats. Mom and sisters chat, cousins chat, inner group of random family who are closer for no good reason chat lmao

One with cousins. One with parents, siblings and in laws. Cousins kind of just there. Not in use as much.

We have the main Family chat which is my sisters and our parents. Then we let our husbands join 😂

We also have…
“Sisters”
“Mum and her children”
“Mum and her UK children” (one of our sisters lives abroad and feels left out if we discuss stuff she can’t be part of 😂 so she’s not on this)
“Dad and his children”

I’ve got one with my mom and sisters and I update my brother bc he hardly checks his phone and doesn’t reply to ppl he forgets . I have another GC just my husband and I with my MIL and I have one with my husbands grandma and aunts and MIL and us in it for family events

Multiple: one with all my in-laws (minus Fil Cause he never texts) including their spouses (so all my brothers in law and their wives), I have one with just the sisters in law on my husbands side, one with my parents and brother and his wife, one with just me, my husband, my brother and his wife and one with me my husband and his mom 😂

We have a group chat for our kids with cell phones and us. No other group chats with anyone else though.

One with all my nan, uncles aunts and all cousins older than 18. One with my mum and sister

I have that many family group chat from both sides of our family that I would be forever listing them! We have always been close though and I do have X2 sisters with similar aged children etc!

I'm in one with my wife, mil, & fil. Then I'm in one with my best friend, close friend, & wife. Then I'm in one with our child's donor siblings' moms.

My mom has tried several times to get one going with her, myself, and my 2 sisters but my oldest sister always exits 🤣 i left because it's just my mom sending random videos. No discussion happens in there.

There's one for my side which has me my siblings and my mum, SIL was in it but she said she felt awkward removed herself. Then there's my husband's side that has me, my husband and his dad

I have one for my family plus husband, then just my fam, then just mom and sister, husband’s siblings and inlaws, the just the girls of husbands family lol

We have an active one that started in covid. People text on it daily. It has aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, first cousins, and the in-laws that existed at the start. We also have one with me, my mom and husband.

My family don’t as I’m no contact with the majority but I am in my partners family group chat which are his parents, his siblings and his nieces and nephews who are over 16

I have one with my fiancés family but not my own lol

Not a fan of group chats. I’m a 1:1 kind of person

Mine I’m with my fiancé & his two older sisters 💕

Uhh my family has way too much drama to gave a group chat 😭

in our community

Bestie where are you?!

Hey I really need to make some friends being a mom is so lonely. Distance does not matter to me (I can’t see waves)

Love my husband. Love my kids. But…

I’m 32 weeks pregnant with twins. I take care of my 4 yo, 2 yo, and 1 yo. I barely have energy to stand anymore. I cuddle and watch movies with my kids all day at this point. My husband is less pushy in this pregnancy in wanting to be touched or love up on me. But I feel more like a tool these days more than ever. He gets frustrated (not to a crazy degree) but I can tell he huffs because he’s probably sexually frustrated from me not wanting to be touched on. (my boobs are super sensitive atm) I love having the babies part, but the pregnancy also now has me feeling like a baby making machine. And a tool with big boobs made for touches and my husbands pleasure. Ofc I love my husband and kids, but with my hormones all wack, it really doesn’t feel the same when you’re not turned on. It’s so hard for me to get turned on. I’m uncomfortable all the time in my own body. Babies moving in there all the time. My children cuddle me all day but get rowdy at the end of the day, so I end up getting touched out and I can get irritable when my husband tries to touch me affectionately. He doesn’t have the tact necessary for me right now, when I wish he wanted to go in for a normal comforting hug I’m let down more often than not, there is almost always a boob groping involved as well. I tried to just let him touch me last night so he could get it out of his system, but he could tell I felt tense. Wish my boobs weren’t such an uncomfortable place for me to be touched. Idk why I’m making this post. Probably just to vent. Wish men were equally as emotionally intelligent as women. Wish I didn’t feel like I still owe him something because he’s picking up a lot of the house load and yet I still need to ask him to do more before these twins arrive. He’s tired every day when he comes home, so he takes a shower sometimes works out, and helps get the kids to bed. So it’s a struggle getting him to help any further than that. Weekends are my only time to get to him. But it’s a struggle to find time on weekends too. I know if he wanted to he would. But there’s just no drive.

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Maternity leave Employment rights?

I have 6 weeks left of work and they have completely changed my job spec including my job title and all my responsibilities, they have done this ahead of advertising my maternity cover apparently to fit business needs which I am fine with but i explained as long as it doesn’t effect me before I go. They have now turned round and said they want me to do the training for it before I go and want me to sign a variation in contract asap. Are they allowed to do this? I thought you had the right to come back to the same job within 26 weeks and I haven’t even left yet and they’re changing it? I was going to see what the job was when I got back and go from there but now they’re wanting me to sign this change in contract before I go I don’t know what to do, do I have to sign it ?

I’ve loss it finally

Please help me good or bad advice I need it !!!
Quick rundown had my baby 3 months ago her dad was cheating on me all the way through pregnancy u til 2 months pp . I was depressed and sad along with pnd ! I allowed him to leave my house sleep about and come back I had no fight left in me I was broken emotionless didn’t want to be here . Fact forward to a few days after valentines day a male friend brought me flowers ex didn’t like it called me all the names ect but 4 days later begging me back I tried for our daughter but he’s put his hands on me twice in the month daily name calling body shaming
Then today we was out his friend rang him why we was in the car to say he has 2 girls for them to go link this was on loud speaker ! I lost my shit arguing we got home I seen red n went for him I then got the hammer & smashed his car windows . I know that was wrong but being goaded daily put down n body shamed made me hate him then I just seen red

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I need more ideas for dinner, what yall cookin up in the kitchen these days ?