My husband can’t stay hard (every time)

We have had sex like 100 times probably since three weeks postpartum and I’m four months postpartum now. He didn’t have this problem of a few months ago but here recently in the last few weeks he’s just had trouble staying where he needs to be and I get very frustrated with him because I’m like is it me or what and maybe it’s because he’s not the healthiest like he drink a lot of soda but he’s very active. He does drink water but I don’t know if that could affect him.? I’m really really tight sometimes and he tells me that I’m too tight and he says it’s blood circulation but I keep asking him what’s wrong with me is it something I’m doing and he says no does anyone else have this problem?

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Don’t get frustrated with him is he stress have he been eating healthy? Sometimes it’s stress man don’t really like sharing there thoughts so it’s really important to like talk to him plan a at home date even with the baby around and play some games have him release have him open up don’t be upset with him I feel like communication is everything in a marriage

100 times in 3 1/2 months is really excessive. Maybe doing it less so he actually enjoys it more when the time comes. Too much sex can be a bad thing for men as well. He wont get that chance to have a pleasure build up or excitement to do it because its done sooooo many times in a short timeframe

Yeah we are doing the deed daily.. and the other day we did 4x. And we had the same issue last night. It was so frustrating

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