Regaining sex life

Maybe a night away without kids will help you reset things?
Good luck I’m sure you’ll get back there 🤍

Time, Mama. It takes approx 18 months to feel bad to "normal" after a baby.

hubby and i started to invest a little more into adult toys and lingerie lol seems to have done the trick 😬

also, hubby came up with a ‘game’ for us where basically i had to hide random sexy toys/outfits throughout the house in places where i thought he would find them (think nightstand, random cabinet, toolbox, silverware drawer, whatever) and when he found something we would have to use it that night after the babies went to bed. depending on timing we might even use it right then when he found it in the kitchen or where ever 😅 kinda fun and helped to build up some excitement and spontaneity again! also took away the awkwardness of trying to pull something out in the moment unexpectedly lol.

Flirt, it's my best advice, don't afraid to be silly, do the things you did when you dated, cuddle, reintroduce intimacy in small ways throughout your day so that when it gets down to it doesn't feel so pressured

My husband and I have definitely gone through phases like this too, it will come back around, for us the main thing that brought us fully back out of it was reading spicy books together, A Court of Thorns and Roses was like a second honeymoon