They kicked me out of the group! what do y’all think?

Honestly that’s weird. Most of us are moms, I put my phone down and don’t touch it for hours. I am not trying to be texting all day when I’m with my kids. I’m in a few group chats and I talk when I am available.

That sounds less like a friend group and more like some kind of strict club. I wouldn’t even worry about it girl. There’s other group chats out there with moms/women who are more chill and understanding 🫶🏻

😂 that’s ridiculous girl. A group text to feel like you’re part of a mom community comes with rules. Like come on 🤦‍♀️

i feel you. it sounds ridiculous. you’re not wrong at all.

I can’t be in group chats like that, I’ve tried and I myself have gotten kicked out for not being super active. I had told them why I wasn’t active much the day before and I guess it got missed so they thought I hadn’t been active for two days and booted me without coming to me about it first or anything. I feel like those types of group chats are just toxic and I don’t have time for them anyways. And I also had been active in that group chat with like reacting to pictures and messages and whatnot but I guess that doesn’t count 😂

If you don’t have time to commit to the amount they are looking for, why do you want to be part of a group with such requirements?

I was in one of those. You had to text a certain amount of times everyday and gush over pictures of their kids before you said anything else. They said you had to stay super active in order for everyone to “bond” but honestly it felt kinda pushy and then there was like… a lot of passive aggressiveness going on too?
Then a whole buncha shyt happened with my relationship and I had to leave any way so c’est la vie I guess but I totally hear you. It’s a lot. You didn’t do anything wrong.

That's why I love discord. Its not very active because I'm JUST starting it but there are no minimum requirements

Same! I was pretty active and then had family visiting for a week and wasn’t as active and they kicked me out😂

I would keep it moving. Not that serious. And they lame for putting you out. I don't even bother with them myself. All those dang requirements and restrictions. Discrimination based on the type of cell phone you have is crazy work lls

You’re definitely not in the wrong, I had the same thing happen to me. lol probably the same GC. It’s wild to me that other moms of little ones think they can decide what takes priority. I’m sorry that happened to you, but if you would like to chat, hit me up.

Start a new one for busy moms lol

Sounds childish a’f

That’s just crazy! 🥴
You didn’t mess up. In my opinion, joining groups are meant to lighten your mood, learn about other people’s experiences and life lessons etc. positive vibes - imagine adding to your anxiety!. As if taking care of a new born isn’t enough 😭
I belong to a group that’s free, no requirements, no burden, or nothing- just ladies supporting ladies 👭💞
We’ve got a very active and warm admin too…
We don’t have to post about our day.
You’re absolutely NOT wrong!!!
One pressure off your back 😊

Idk I really think forcing moms to “respond a certain amount of times” is just senile tbh. Some people have really busy schedules, some kids have bad days that mom has to be extra attentive. I get if they go like a week without saying a damn thing at all, but having a quota of messages you have to meet DAILY is just such over kill. I hate that that’s how 99% of the groups are here. That’s just NOT always possible. I quit trying to join groupchats VERY quickly because of this. They also always have WAY too many girls in the group the one group I tried to join I was just ignored in because by the time I messaged someone else was already on a different topic so 87% of my messages went completely ignored.

A group chat or a work schedule? 😩

I joined a group chat for like one day they started telling me all the rules and I was like nope not for me

I'm in an amazing group chat. And sometimes some of us aren't active all day. Like yesterday we took a family road trip and I told them I wasn't going to be active. These rules are ridiculous your ex group had. Like. I'm not about to send a certain amount of character in my text. This isn't my college class essay.

Dude that happened to me too…was literally 24 hours…and texted…they were like good morning…so I said good morning to the group…and then they were having hella text conversations and I was at work…and I’m in the medical field and shit hit the fan so I couldn’t really be like…hold please, I have to text these people (I JUST met) back…not even the evening, straight up by lunch I was knocked out the group…I’m like oh well…yall ain’t for me then…🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️