Why do we sugar coat everything ?

100% your team.

I can be pretty blunt about my advice. I’ve been called names by a few girls. But they weren’t peaches themselves.
I can’t stand the “woe is me” posts sometimes. Or the ones who just only have why nots and excuses when you’re trying to help.
Now there’s no reason to just be mean obviously. But like the girls that lead with “I know he’s terrible”
“He’s always been terrible”
Etc, then, it’s but I’m marrying him or I can’t leave or what do I do to fix it. Those bug me, specifically.
🤷🏼‍♀️ healthy level of honesty

As Taylor swift said “casually cruel in the name of being honest”. Not a big swiftie but that line has always stuck with me.

Most people do not want advice. They want their feelings validated. So I think sugar coating things is totally fine.

The world is cruel enough as it is

I think you can be both honest and kind..

I think it's just a cop out when people can't be bothered to think about their delivery, it feels like an excuse to be mean.. "but I'm just being honest"..

Incognito, you can't control how others receive it or how they'll react. That's beyond your control. You only have power over yourself and how you choose to conduct yourself