Doesn’t Want to Have Sex

I think OP is saying she wants to be intimate not that she’s not ready.

You’re not crazy at all. That would make me think that he’s involved with someone else especially since it’s 10 months PP. :/

I know the first thought is that he's getting it elsewhere, but my additional thought is - are you using any birth control? Does he not want the chance of more kids? Or is he having any kind of dysfunction issues going on? Men can go through periods of stress and dry spells too. It's a little stereotypical to always expect them to be in the mood. Maybe he needs some mood setting? I wish you the best of luck. I hope it isn't worst case scenario.

Cheating

Usually it’s the other way around so it’s great that you wonna be intimate!! I’d definitely look into cheating.. or if he’s having an emotional connection with someone else? He could also be dealing with Postpartum depression which comes in different variations with men. My partner had it & didn’t want sex for awhile. He worked from home so I know he wasn’t cheating but men can go through their own motions too & all.

You really need to try and sit down and talk to him.. if there’s a reason he doesn’t want to or something’s holding him back? Maybe spice things up and something different. Everything changes after giving birth