I need help 😭😭

So my kids dad doesnt take accountability for anything. Denies, denies, denies everything. So I turned to tarot. A few people I have asked have confirmed third party. I want to get rid of all temptations for him so he is just mine but im so exhausted of fighting for him and not getting anywhere. Like he gets bored and then drops the third supply then his energy shifts, I turn to tarot they say no third party, then i get a weird feeling again his energy shifts and I ask and then im told third party involved again. Please help. Im loosing sleep over this now.

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Sorry hun You are now the prisoner... listen my 2cents.. whats meant for you will be for you...

Trying to control anyone, or "keeping guard" you then become the prisoner. Is it worth your health to keep him, the one who is depleting your energy, contaminating your spirit with outside spirts and whatever demons they have spread to you? If he was all in wouldnt you feel more assured about where you stand with him? And nomore sleepless nights?

Dont wait around as the placeholder mamas... your worth is of a higher plane than his especially when its of self awareness then you will elevate

Lmao 🤣 gal the d too good huh... smh. I understand completely... welp... i guess you wait until it fucks your world up entirely when the truth sets in your face 🤷🏽‍♀️ . We feel it we see it but still want what we want huh.

"Kids dad" so not even a husband? Boyfriend??

Do a cord cutting spell. Focus on you, if hes meant to be yours he will come correct.

I dont quite understand your comment. Are you saying hes not even a boyfriend bc of certain excuses on his part? If he isnt even a boyfriend and there's a third party... this just isnt your man Im sorry to say. He is not worth losing sleep over. Do a cord cutting and call your energy back. You can Google cord cutting ritual and something should pop up, its usually a candle carved with his name, one with yours, tied with string or twine, set on a bed of salt and protection herbs, light the candles and set your intentions as the twine burns, severing the cord between the two. I would follow this up with a self love jar, take some crystals and herbs for love and calm like rose quartz, rose petals, chamomile flowers, and put into a jar with your name on a petition paper and cover with sugar or honey.

Hes not going to admit it. You already know what's going on and what you should do, youre just afraid to act on it and hold a boundary with this guy. I get it, no judgement. Sounds like he doesnt even help with the baby though, and you dont live together, what are you wanting out of him at this point? If you really need to get closure, I would sit him down and have an honest talk tell him you know about the third party and want a real attempt at a family but that you need complete honesty. I doubt its gonna go the way you hope though. I would just cut the cord and do a self love ritual and move on.

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