CAN SOMEONE FUCKING HELP ME

Are you fluffing out the leg bits? Also sounds like it’s not just the diaper but postpartum rage, which def can be triggered by the troubles of breastfeeding but also a lack of village. Where’s your support mama?

Does she usually latch? How old is she?

That sounds super stressful all around.
Make sure you are getting a tight fit around her legs and around her waist. Not all diapers are cut the same way and fit all babies. It may be worth trying a different brand

Definitely get a mattress protector! I don't know how anyone functions without one.

My boy used to leak loads, I tried a brand called Peachies and it was a complete game changer! Try them! I also recommended to a few of my friends and no more leaks!

Obviously don’t know how old baby is but a few things to try - if baby is big enough use actual overnight diapers. Typically start at size 3. You can and use something called a sposie pad inside for extra absorption. Different brands definitely do fit differently. If you can post more details like age and body type; if baby is more lean or has especially chunky thighs, things like that, people can maybe troubleshoot some more.

You could also do multiple layers on your bed. Waterproof mattress pad, sheet, another protector and then another sheet. Then you could remove the top layers and the bottom should still be dry do you’re not dealing with fully changing sheets in th middle of the night.

I really hope you’re okay!
How old is LO one
Have you tried Sainsbury nappies they worked so well for me!!

Hope you are ok! Send me a message if you need someone to chat with !

Did you size up too much by any chance, might she be tongue tied is the not latching issue new?

Make sure any clothes over the diaper are not too tight- we sized up in vests so they don’t compact them in any way

Pampers pure have been my go to and they hold so much!