My baby is due to start Daycare in 7 weeks at 10 months old. She still is exclusively breastfed throughout the day and will not take a bottle. I have only left her with her father for half an hour since she was born. Will she be ready?

We have no family close, so it’s been me 24/7. I am very overwhelmed with going back to work full time and she will be in day care 0730-1830. It’s such a long day for her. Has anyone got the same experience?

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Hi there

I had this with my first boy and I understand how you must be feeling.

My little boy did 7:30-5 most days. He wouldn’t take a bottle either which was so tough!!
But we started trying to get him used to an open cup.
I would pump milk on my lunch break and then give this to childminder for the next day. She would give this to him in the open cup. It was messy at first but he got the hang of it eventually.

Xx

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