Husband abandoned us

Omgggg this is horrible. Leave and do not come back! I cant even believe what im reading... wth???? He sounds so odd tbh. Its so weird to me!!! I would honestly stop sending him paragraphs because he barely acknowledges anything you say. Just stop giving him energy. Hes a manchild. He sounds like a narcissist too. Next time he msgs you, either dont respond or give him the same energy. One word answers. All the best

i’m so sorry.

What an absolute shithouse. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now, but someday soon you’ll look back and realise you dodged a massive bullet.

What you tolerate reflects what you think you deserve. this psychological principle suggests that our external reality—specifically what we allow, endure, or accept in our relationships, work, and environment—acts as a mirror for our internal, often subconscious, core beliefs. 

Love yourself; love your baby; be thankful he left; you have no clue how much of a bullet you’re currently dodging; I hope he’s not on the BC so you get a passport book and card for you and baby without any issues from him

Wow… I’m honestly shocked at what I’m reading. You handled that with so much grace, because I could not have.
You are married. The way he’s behaving is completely unacceptable. He sounds like a narcissistic, immature man child who thinks he can threaten you and kick you out whenever it suits him just because he “pays the rent.” That’s not how marriage works. His responsibility as a husband is to provide safety, stability, and respect for you and his family.
The fact that he believes he can toy with your life, discard you, and then pick you back up whenever he wants is honestly disturbing. He’s shown you exactly who he is. please believe him.
Please don’t go back. You deserve so much better than this, and one day he will regret treating you this way.

Sounds like he wants to give things a shot with someone else and keep you on the back burner in case it doesn’t work out with the new person.

Move out, have a clean break and when he comes crawling back DONT give him the time of day. Unless it’s strictly for child care arrangements. Otherwise you will be in a cycle, your little boy will suffer. When you do date again find someone who is completely different and makes you feel calm.

Also, you’re married so what’s his is also half yours legally speaking. Make sure you file and get what your son is owed out of this.

I really am shocked with what am reading right now. Men can be cruel and inconsiderate

Send these texts to his mom.

Just wanted to thank you ALL for your support. He literally said I could have full custody if he didn’t have to pay child support and when told he’d have to he said then he needs some custody because he doesn’t want to pay. He’s gonna be really pissed when he finds out he’ll have to either way. I did leave, and I will NEVER be going back. I made sure to tell everyone close to me so they can hold me accountable and make sure I don’t make the mistake of believing him if he comes back. It was a hard decision but honestly I’m doing so much better and so is my son.